Yes she is, and as Tamara said, she's doing this because she doesn't understand. The only thing she knows about the CDing is the stereotype that all of us are exposed to until we delve into it a bit deeper. Before getting to know any CDers, I thought it was something that gay men do, to attract other gay men ... and to an outsider, going on Craigslist T4M is what gay men do. Your wife doesn't know that you've done this, but if she ever found your ads it would confirm the stereotype. Also, you may not realize this but you are playing with fire. Your needs will grow as your wife becomes more accepting (if she does), and if you enjoy playing around with male compliments, it could lead to an obsession with having sex with one, while you're dressed:
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...boys-as-a-girl (8 pages, 205 posts, 12,872 views)
At any rate, your wife needs to educate herself including possibly becoming a member here. The following link is just a beginning; it is the link that my SO sent me when he first told me about the CDing:
http://www.tri-ess.org/docs/cd01.html
Hope this helps.