Originally Posted by
corrinediane
All of the thought that's going into this is what was intended. The point here is our forum is just a place we come to in cyber space to write our piece. To read and digest, perhaps learn a few things but it's just cyber space. Whether I underestimate gg's, read the forum. More gurls are alienated from their spouses then the ones that find meaningful success. Some loose them all together. Meaningful success? What is it to each of us? Now you won't get caught but she frowns upon you. What success is that? She lets you do it but won't participate. Gee, what fun. Your "coming out" makes her go to a therapist? I don't want to do that much harm to someone I love, who loves me or the me she thinks I am. The whole reason to come out is we are tired of being alone in this pink world of ours. Naturally we crave to be with others. Maybe Eryn is rite, the longer your with someone the greater your chance of success. I just read a coming out post the other day of 28 years down the drain. I don't want anyone to believe this "place" will be there for them when they are alone and miserable. Look at how we are separated geographically. How many of us have actually talked to one another? Can the gurls that come out in disaster call you? Can she come and stay on your couch? This is suppose to scare the shit out of all the closeted CD's that think they find strength here. I don't want "coming out" to be a fad to the readers and members of this forum. Be smart!!!!