Originally Posted by
Devi SM
It's hypocrisy to show to the world one face and hide the other. It's a lie.
When I was a kid my mom told me that lie has short legs and true always catch her. Another interesting analogy is when we lie, then we have to create another seven lies to conceal that original lie, so do the numbers, it is called exponential, after a while you live a life of lies and is not hard to find here numerous stories about being catch and destroyed lives for hiding something that was true but were afraid of say to the world that it was real so we cover it with a lie, then more lies and so on....you end living a hypocrisy. The feeling of being living for years with a person that was hiding a true is the more damaging feeling a wife can experience.
If there were nothing wrong why to hide it? Believe me I hide it for years and lies, shame, guilty are very common feelings for many here ....call it the way you want but to live one life in your intimacy and live other to the world, How would you call it?