Originally Posted by
kimdl93
Ok...cat's 98% out of the bag....in my experience that means the cat is entirely out of the bag. Things have changed. More change is inevitable and uncertain.
So now what? You know your wife...of all those years. Use that knowledge.
Then, take the most frightening step...ask to begin a conversation with a counselor if you think that might help maintain a civil tone.
After that, all you can do is keep your head, listen and constantly adjust yourself to the emerging reality. You can't control it, but you can control how you respond, and that can make a difference.