Originally Posted by
Micki_Finn
Here?s the issue: in your very premise, you?re not respecting your wife?s feelings. The only way to ?get her on board? is to talk to her and find out what she is comfortable with, and if there is some way to make her comfortable with the things she?s not. You can?t trick her into being ok with it and there is no argument logical enough to force her to change her mind. All you can do is talk to her or hide it from her. Good luck, tbh I don?t envy your position right now.