Originally Posted by
ReineD
There are many members here who are in a DADT arrangement, they dress when their SO's are not home. But I gather this is difficult to navigate. What happens when the SO strops traveling, or if the urge to dress strikes when the SO is home, or when the SO nears retirement? It would place you in an awkward position, having to deny yourself.
About the girls. If your neighbor knows that you are gay, then I'm sure he doesn't worry about his girls' safety.
Unfortunately, views are not always that open-minded when CDers are hetero, among some age groups and in some pockets of society. Some people are ignorant and they equate the CDing with perversion, just like in decades past when some people equated homosexuality with pedophilia. But if you live in a neighborhood populated mostly by people your age, then I'm sure that mind-set is not there.
I know I'm preaching to the choir, but the changes have been so vast in the last five years or so in terms of expanding the legal rights of homosexuals, that finally people (I think overall) accept the right to be attracted to same-sex ... except in places like Indiana and Arkansas.