Am I TS? Tough love or compassion?
Anybody that reads this section have seen members asking "Am I TS?". In the old days the question would be met mostly with "tough love" bordering on cruelty from some members. Those asking mostly ended up leaving with their tails between their legs or being peeved off. Of course depending on what they asked or their background it could be easy to tell they were not TS.
One thing that does puzzle me is how some preop girls with no RLE have so many answers, do they do a lot of reading and memorizing? The postop (now women) have experienced it all. Of course the best person to get answers from for you is a gender therapist but that's a given.
So what is your approach, tough love or compassion or a middle ground?
Let's get tjhis thread back on track
Right folks, you have had your little detour about whether someone earns too much or works hard or whatever.
Now it's time to get this thread back on track and to discuss the merits / downsides of "tough love" versus compassion when dealing with someone who is questioning.
Any further discussion about "too much money" versus "worked two (or more) jobs" will be deleted.
Rianna Humble
Moderator, Transsexual Forums