I may have stepped one step too far.
So quick backround. My wife knows of my dressing and is ok with it. Not to be to graphic but sometimes we have even made love with me wearing a dress. It's so hot. My wife has seen me in dresses but not too much just wearing panties and a bra. I have never worn wigs around her as well. So the other night I was being a little extra brave. I was wearing a bra and panties around her.
I even asked her if I should take the bra off and she said I didn't have too. Well we had started to make love and then she told me to take the bra off because it wasn't doing anthing for her. It's something about wearing a bra in front of your SO that is different than even wearing a dress. A bra is like the ultimate femine thing in my opinion.
So she wasn't mad at me and also said she was just really tired. I even said I was sorry that I was pushing that far. I should be happy with what I got instead of alwasy trying to add more.
I can see how SO's that may be accepting of it at times may change their minds later.