Originally Posted by
Clara
I feel like I need to react to those posts that express such outrage over your not telling your wife before the marriage. Yes, honesty is important. But then, I agree that 30 years ago telling a woman that you are a CD wasn't as easy as today (not that today it is extremely easy). But times have changed. For example, I am the one who works part time to take care of our child, who takes care of the house, cooks, etc. And my wife is the one with the career. And it is just completely normal. Would it be so normal 30 years ago? So, no I don't blame you, Lisa, for not telling your wife. And those who were not in your shoes should not either.
Good luck to you both.