I'm sorry Jorja, you are very wrong there
Whether or not it was done intentionally (adn I do not believe it was intentional) this phrase excludes our FtM brethren by opening the thread only to the MtF and GG population of this forum. According to the site rules, if someone requests responses only from one section of the readership, then those not included must stay out of the discussion.
Even though this was probably accidental, Melissa asked for contributions from those who identify as "girls" thus excluding the FtM transsexuals. They in their turn would quite rightly have refrained from participating.
I am glad that Captain Lex brought this to our attention. Perhaps we should reread the stickies more often. In particular the one entitled
Section Announcement...Please Read! which covers this very point