you can achieve it if you're willint to pay your dues
Yes, it is very possible to achieve a girly figure... or at least a more girly figure than what you've got now. :)
There's no magical solution though. You've got to work at it. And when I say work, I mean work. There's nothing fun or enjoyable about it, but the key to slimming down and looking fit and girly is to exercise, eat right, and exercise some more.
I spent up to two hours a day exercising. I'm not one of those people who feels great when I exercise - it's rather unpleasant. It's just something I have to do though.
I have a flat stomach and you can too. How flat? Click the link and find out. :) That's me, as of yesterday. I work my butt off to look this way, so I do flaunt it when I can. :heehee:
Lots and lots of sit-ups, crunches, serious time on the treadmill, and eating right is how I was able to look this way. It is true that some girls (cd's) are genetically prone to just be slim and look great naturally. Unfortunately, I did not fall into that category, so I have to really work at it. And I'll say it again - it really is hard work.
This may not be the answer you were looking for, but you can make it work for you if you choose to. :)
If you do start to get seriously in to exercising, I recommend hooking up with a personal trainer and/or dietician so that you do it right. Starving yourself and over-exercising can be very bad for your health, so make sure you do your research first.