Originally Posted by
TheMissus
I can tell you from a GG POV that discovering your life partner, your MAN, the person you shared everything with, is NOT everything he said he was and in fact likes to be SOMEONE ELSE is not small fry. It's traumatic, heartbreaking and I can say from experience that when this reality is revealed, you're not sitting there giving a flying fart about LGBT rights - you want to KILL him! Or leave. Or kill him then leave...and before that you want him to take it all back and say it's not true and make it all okay again. So thanks for understanding how it is for us.
And to the OP, of course the big reveal can end a relationship. It can also end a person's trust and sanity and despite what everyone thinks of GGs tolerance or whatever, CD should NEVER be taken lightly when revealed. To those of us not in the know, it's like Armageddon.