Originally Posted by
Micki_Finn
Aaron, why not ask? If she’s accepting, asking her first will help further build trust because she’ll realize you’re not about to go half-cocked and do something crazy if you’re consulting her first. Some of you are averse to “asking permission”, but you can always just drop a “I was thinking about [plucking eyebrows, dressing more, changing my hair, etc]”. That way you’re not asking permission per se, but you’re still inviting her feedback and giving her the opportunity to say “that’s a bad idea” or “sure, go for it.”