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donnaS
I agree with y'all. But also was told she wouldn't have married me if she knew about all this before we said I do.
Right. And if you had been honest with her on day one you wouldn't be putting her through this misery.
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I know I'm a butt head for not disclosing this info ahead of time.
Yes, yes you are.
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I don't want a divorce over me being who I am. The guilt would be overwhelming. After all she didn't expect or ask for this.
1: That option may be taken out of your hands.
2: That's something you'll have to live with.
3: That's right, she didn't.
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Just really miss the feel and connection to that special person and long for it badly. Something you won't get in a bed mate.
Yes well, you chose to lie to that "special person" so if she doesn't want to touch you anymore you're going to have to deal with it.
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It's funny how we want the same thing, but neither can give it.
I've said it before and I'll say it again, your wife wants a man who looks like a man not a dude who looks like a lady.
And I wouldn't bring up counseling. She didn't bring this on.
My words might seem harsh but *shrug* they're the truth