Hi there just a quick question how many of you great people go out fully dressed to bars and resturants trying to being as female as possible.
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Hi there just a quick question how many of you great people go out fully dressed to bars and resturants trying to being as female as possible.
I haven't but I will when I feel I present a better female image.
I do. And once done, you will be amazed at how natural it seems. It is really such a strange thing when you think about it, going out and presenting as female, but for me it is some kind of validation as to who/what I am.
Once out and interacting, you forget you are dressed. It's really quite an amazing thing.
I do and, as Jennifer indicated, there's nothing like it. Once you get in the zone, you forget you're anything but a woman, out in the world.
Rhonda
Only occasionally these days.
When I was younger, party, party, party. :)
It's on the list. Logistics is everything.
Barely, and not without being absolutely terrified. One does not simply walk out the door 'en femme'. 'You shall not pass' and all that.
as the weather warms up...i plan to head out more...mostly to resturants & bars kinda thing.......i want to be in nyc alot this year till we get to the dog days of summer...then i will be on the beach...
Yes as Adriana said, til the heat of summers descends upon us.
Been out to TG friendly bars, restaurants, and shopping & movies of course.
When I go to the club to dance, I am female. :battingeyelashes::)
I do and I think we often think people notice us more than they really do... my issue is the restroom thing, try to find family restrooms *gender neutral* which make it easier than going as am presenting or physically am...
I go out to all the normal places as often as I can. I go grocery shopping, church, restaurants, movies, etc. And as for the restroom, I use the ladies room when I am presenting female.
Do people notice I am not a GG? Maybe. Do I care. No, as long as they treat me with respect.
A quick answer is "YES"!
I haven't been to the bars or restaraunts. I am still waiting for the right time, and have plans for meeting with others from the forum. Practicing my patience, but it will happen!
Much Love,
Kristyn
I go out as a female every time I dress... I've been to restaurants, movies, dancing.. and have gone to a couple of party's..
if my wife was excepting I'd be dressed most all the time. (if she was excepting I'd be on my way to being female)
My partner persuaded me to go out for the first time, and so far we have been to a local meeting, where we were made very welcome, and two or three times to the cinema. Like Zylia i found it terrifying, but did calm a little and it was certainly a boost afterwards. She has suggested grabbing a bite to eat before going to the cinema, which is a logical step but I haven't felt brave enough yet. It will happen. Ihope that I will feel like Jennifer, just happy and relaxed when out.
Helena
Hi all
Yes - I go out - was out today. Restaurants and bars are ok when you have somebody with you - regardless of their sex / gender, it's just nice to have people to sit and talk to while enjoying your meal / drink. Went grocery shopping en femme today, and have my eyes on a nice dress which I will try on tomorrow.
Claire
OMG, the LotR references are killing me. Awesome!
I've been to trans friendly venues only, so far, but want more!
I nver go to bars alone, restaurants is a different story, but even there I usually go with a companion.
I go out as often as possible and love every minute of it. I get treated like a proper lady and like some of the other ladies here have said, after you get over being nervous, you enjoy it and it is one of the most liberation feelings you can experience :)
Also stay safe... if your going somewhere out in the evening, be sure to have one or more friends with you, just in case
I have never truly been out in public. I have gone for late night drives with the wife but have never got out of the car. I do plan to chage this however, and hopefully soon.
~Ash