How does crossdressing affect your sex life?
For me, once I got into my twenties and I was married and dressing as often as I could behind my ex-wife back, I became much less interested in sex with her. My total turn on became wearing her clothes and becoming the real me. I found relief mostly through masturbation while looking at my pretty reflection in the mirror. It got to the point that she'd try and turn me on in bed, but I wasn't able to do much as I'd probably had sex alone a few times that day.
I'm sure that was one of the major factors in our break up, and I can't say as I blame her a bit. If I knew where she was today, I'd apologize to her. I know now I was obsessed with crossdressing, and I still may be. The big difference is that my wife now is very accepting of it, so I'm well out of the closet.
So if anyone else has been through something like this, I'd like to hear your story. I think it will help some of the other girls here who might be in the same position.
Karen
there's an old joke that goes
something like, "If you're bisexual you've automatically doubled your chances."
Crossdressing and sexual activity
My feelings are exactly as you discribed it Karen. I also lost my interest in sexual activity with my wife when I seriously started to engage in crossdressing. I also love admiring myself while dressed enfemme and relieve my sexual desires by myself. I am still married to a wonderful woman that has no idea of my crossdressing. We get along great, living similar to brother and sister with no sexual contact. She never had great sexual desires all her life and is quite happy to carry on as we are doing. My crossdressing remains in the closet and comes to life when she is out of the house for a long period of time.
Love Marcie R.:)