Would you choose NOT to dress?
I, like most, if not everyone, else here knows that your dressing isn't really something you choose it's more or less in our DNA. It's at our core being. BUT given the choice, would you choose to not dress? Would you prevent yourself from trying on that first addictive piece of clothing? Would you spare yourself the pain and anguish of your cd feelings that we all have of trying to deny that we love crossdressing? Or would you do it all over again knowing how expensive it is? Knowing terrifying it can be to go out in public?
IF it were possible, would you remove your tendency to dress? Is it all worth it? And why?
Would You Choose NOT to Dress?
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Briana90802
I, like most, if not everyone, else here knows that your dressing isn't really something you choose it's more or less in our DNA. It's at our core being. BUT given the choice, would you choose to not dress? Would you prevent yourself from trying on that first addictive piece of clothing? Would you spare yourself the pain and anguish of your cd feelings that we all have of trying to deny that we love crossdressing? Or would you do it all over again knowing how expensive it is? Knowing terrifying it can be to go out in public?
IF it were possible, would you remove your tendency to dress? Is it all worth it? And why?
I would choose to be a crossdresser, even if there were a pill that would remove the associated feelings and desires forever. Those feelings and desires are part of me. I would not shed them gladly!
At the recent Southern Comfort Conference, one of the seminars described the changes in level of transgender acceptance over the last decade. Today over 75% of the US states have non-discrimination laws that include transgender persons, not just lesbians and gay men. Corporations such as IBM, New York Life, and a dozen or more others have policies to insure that transgender persons are given a fair shake in hiring, salaries, promotions, and other personnel matters. Hate-crime laws at the federal level now include transgender persons. In sum, the level of acceptance over the last decade has improved more than it had in all prior US history. Given that positive trend, there is less and less reason to try to get rid of one’s core feelings and desires pertaining to crossdressing.