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windycissy
Seems to me the kid is lightyears ahead of you, he's dressing up in her clothes, not behind her back...IMO bringing it up with him is a terrible idea, he'll be pissed that his fiance told her mother who told you and by the time the whole thing blows over you'll probably be outed in front of them all. I'd keep my peace if I were you....
Unless you're ready to come out of the closet, Steph, and sounds like u AREN'T, discussions with ANYONE about CDing r a red flag!:eek:
Maybe u should go out with the future son in law, to get to know each other, and have a few drinks.:drink:
But, be prepared NOT to discuss CDing at all!:eek:
Maybe if you're getting on well after a few toddies, u MITE tell a short story about your "buddy" who prepared for Halloween, by trying on some of his wife's clothes! Then, SHUT UP! If he bites, ask him some other CASUAL questions! If he doesn't, LET IT GO!:brolleyes:
If for some reason, he spills his guts, JUST LISTEN!:eek:
That's what I would do, if I found out my daughter's new husband wore her things!:straightface:
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If you want to keep your cd removed from this dilemma, find a news story, like that Ga. Teen kick out of school, and bring it up casually and see how your daughter responds.
If she bites pull her in, if she nibbles give her a little line, and if she isn't even close change the subject.
I would have a talk with him!!
It obviously struck a nerve with your daughter to tell your wife TMI.So,I would set up a one on one and just tell him you heard,through your wife,etc. And then say that lots of people dress and that it can cause problems if not talked over properly.Suggest that he talk this out with your daughter asap .You can say that you have no problem with it but you hate to see it blow up for your little girl....That way,you haven't outed yourself,shown you are of open mind,and concerned for their happiness together. To do nothing is being a hypocrite in my book.:2c: