Originally Posted by
Debbie Denier
Thanks everyone for your kind words, advice and opinions. I realise there is no easy solution. Kris you are right there has been a lifetime of guilt and shame . Probably because it came before I had relationships . Like many I thought by getting married it would go away. Which it did for many years.I am reluctant to burden my wife as she has debilitating health issues that I do not wish to exacerbate. Think I will have to adapt. Dressing has provided me with stress relief throughout my life particularly during the last 9yrs.I should also take some of my own advice.