Still trying to figure it out
Another good question Denise and lots of good answers. At first it was a release while at home (part of my agreement with my wife) with a little bit of underdressing to go along with it.
Since her death, the restriction has been lifted and I now do go out dressed. Why, because I want to and it feels right in doing it. I tend to travel a bit out of town in deference to my kids and job. Do I want to be a woman full time? No. But as long as I'm treated as I present I'm fine with it. I don't do androgeny well, if I'm not sure how I present then how will the person I'm interacting with know.
I feel that I've gone further than I ever thought I would, but where the end is I'm still not sure.