Originally Posted by
kimdl93
Your post asks an interesting and recurring question: what is the attraction to going outside of our homes, whether to be seen or not seen by others. I have certainly pondered this over the years. My sense is that we are social animals. We have an intrinsic craving to be accepted by others, but for much of our lives each of us has kept this part of ourselves hidden. Hiding ourselves is stressful. We naturally fear being inadvertently discovered and rejected, and at the same time wonder why what we do seem so unacceptable to others.
Eventually, (like through participation in this forum) we come to realize that others like us can and do go out in public and experience indifference, tolerance and even some acceptance from others. And eventually, we feel drawn to step out the front door and experience life in a less restrained manner.
I know that from my own experience, long ago now, I found that stepping out the front door and walking in the daylight to be a heady, exhilarating experience and I wanted more of the same. Maybe I enjoyed it too much, but thats another story.