Starting a new thread since the existing one has gotten too unwieldy (Over 66 pages long)
To get to the original thread:
https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...f-Tucking-v2-0
Printable View
Starting a new thread since the existing one has gotten too unwieldy (Over 66 pages long)
To get to the original thread:
https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...f-Tucking-v2-0
I use 1 or 2 firm control briefs (link to similar below) to hold the boys in place. I like that these are women's clothes and not a men's CDing gaff. One of my boys doesn't stay in very well due to him being a bit larger than his brother. Does anyone else here have a similar problem or a suggested solution? If the subject is to tough to discuss, you can PM me, Thanks
http://www.nylingerie.com/flexees-wo...iABEgKgFfD_BwE
When I tuck I wear a pair of body shaping panties that have short legs that are two sizes smaller than what I normally wear. Tuck testicles up the canal and pull penis back between butt cheeks and pull panties up as tight as you can. Gives a flat appearance with a little mound where it should be. Has never come undone. When I pee another quick tuck and I'm ready to go,
My method by request:
I use a homemade gaff, which you can see how to make on YouTube. Basically you cut the elastic band out of the top of a pair of pantyhose. Then you take a tube sock and cut off the top (where it fits around your calf). Take the elastic band from the pantyhose and run it through the cut sock. With the sock in the middle of the elastic band, put your legs through the now visible holes of the band. Pull everything up to just below your penis. From here, this is how I tuck:
With one hand, I push my penis back as far as I can from the front. With the other hand, I reach behind and grab my penis, keeping it pulled back as far as I can and in between my balls (one on each side of my penis). Once I’m pulled back pretty far and have split the boys, I’ll pull up on my penis while maintaining keeping it pulled back. While using that hand to keep everything I’ve just done in place, I use my other hand to start pulling up my gaff, alternating between the front and back. As you pull the elastic band between your butt cheeks like a thong, the sock will start to tighten everything in place. Once I have my gaff and everything in place, I use a small hair tie in the back (just above my crack) to cinch the two sides between my butt cheeks closer together. I’ve found that if you don’t tie this part, the gaff gets loose and everything starts falling out. I’ve also found that by splitting the boys with your penis, they will naturally go up inside of you once the sock tightens down. The sock is also key. The smaller you cut the sock, the tighter the tuck will be, so experiment with different sizes. It would say 3 inches of the top part of the sock is a good size for a good, comfortable tuck. I personally have various sizes depending on how tight I want my tuck to be.
This method does take some getting used to. It may be uncomfortable at first, but trust me, you’ll get used to it. That’s it!! That’s my method.
Are there any videos in the net about tucking, pictures always better than explanation. I've tried tucking several times, but somehow doesn't work
I was using a home made gaff but it would leave lines when I would wear skinny jeans. So I went out and bought a size smaller thong bottom swim suit. It holds everything in place with no liines.
There are a few vids on YouTube but they tend to be descriptive rather than pictorial I guess for the sake of decency. That's not to say there's not one or two on there but I've not found any.
If tucking isn't working for you then I would suggest try and try again. I've found that as I've tucked more then the boys learn where to go and it became ever easier. It may be you need tighter under garments to hold everything in place at least in the early stages.
I’ve already described how I tuck in this thread, so I thought I would share a few pics of how it looks with clothes on.
Attachment 287478Attachment 287479Attachment 287480Attachment 287481Attachment 287482
I use tucknit.com jewerly to tuck sometimes.
I have two gaffs and shape wear that works well also.
Wow, Steph.
The only thing missing is a cute little camel toe.
I shall visit your recommended instructional videos. Thanks for the tips. With spring legging season upon us, I'd LOVE to go out in leggings and not have to wear a long covering top.
Not sure if I've located the canal, is it slightly up, and in front of "between your legs"?
Dena they are just to the sides of the middle part and a bit higher up. If you take a finger and probe around there you should be able to sort of curve your finger inside and up a bit behind your abdominal wall. Hope this helps.
Long before I ever found this site,I vaguely recall something about somewhere reading that having had a hernia surgery makes it harder or unable to tuck up into the canal---so far I've never tried this kind of tuck. I had a right inguinal hernia repair in 1972 at the age of 25. I read about that method for the first time when I found this site. I remember back in my teen years experimenting a little bit with tucking, and not getting much success. When I got on here and read about putting the testicles back up sorta where they came from, it really sounded like more than I cared to try way back then; I guess that would be about 10 or so years ago. I am now 70 but I would really like to now get a better tuck. Till now I've tried to just push sister and her two brothers/bodyguards back as far as possible and hold back and down (or up and back) as far as possible and pull up the tight brief (sometimes a first, then a second) to get up to a position where it keeps everything held back and up as much as possible and as far between the legs as possible. Lately the attempt has been to use a bandana folded in half---have tried both on and off the bias (in other words a wide triangle or a 4-layer folded rectangle) and drape it half above and half below the three members after the first brief is up as far as it will go and still allow access to the area below to push it back and down and then up as far as I can. Hope that doesn't make 'no sense at all' to you. Then after the "holding cloth is in place a bit I pull from the back first one end and then the other end of the bandana, (when using it as a triangle shape--the middle or high point of the pyramid, goes in front and the 2 ends are each on one and the other side(s) of the butt cheeks, which you pull back on from the respective sides. It's hard to visualize, I know. Its a matter of slowly and carefully keeping "Nellie and the boys from moving forward while pulling up on a very tight "tucking brief---over the years I have used several styles and types of brief---all from Wal-Mart. I've just about worn out my very favorite, the first one I ever bought---what my first wife simply referred to as an "all-in-one. Once I go back and read some of those 66 pages of earlier posts, I might have more perspective on what works, what doesn't and how to talk - er - write more clearly about it. I.ve seen a few of the vids on youtube a good while back i'll be reviewing them next.
I've seen the You Tube video Steph eludes to. Steph's insructions along with the video are "right on".
TY for neat info.
I need to learn this.:fairy2:
I went and watched that video and am going to pick up the stuff to try it myself. Thanks so much for the info
Cathy
About hernia - There are a number of different hernias and not all are in the area of the inguinal canal, which is where you may hide your "boys". For those that apply to that area there are different surgery solutions that some of them may restrict access to the inguinal canal. I have not succeeded in "popping" in my boys and when they seem to be in the appropriate position they never stay there so I assume that it does not work for everybody. At least not for me.
my surgery in 1972 was in the right inguinal area. For that reason I have never tried that method. I just pull them back as far as I can usually with 2 pair of shaping briefs. I am going to try the homemade gaff method next, as detailed on a couple of youtube videos and I believe somewhere in the earlier section of this subject.
I also had a hernia operation as an infant, which might be impeding my attempts at tucking. I think I'm doing it right, just not getting the boys in...
The place I can push mine, is between the skin and the bone. Above and to the left & right of the joystick.
Kathy, I had an inguinal hernia operation a year ago and have no problem tucking the boys up into the inguinal canal. If you click on the link to Felicity's original post on tucking (in the first post in this chaini by the moderator), she has a great description. I have modified the method slightly, it involves tape which I mention in a post very near the end of the original chain you will find in the link. Getting the boys up into their inquinal canals really makes a huge difference in ho good and convincing the result is..plus you can get the penis back out of the way, can still pee like a girl without taking it all apart, and it's totally comfortable, even riding a bike! If you would like details you can PM me :-)
Thanks Michelle and Julie! I'll try again.
But in all honesty, I love a pantie bulge. It's super sexy.
I'm small so there is not too much to notice. LOL
Mandy
Have a question. I can get the boys back where they come from, and the rod folds back nicely. My problem is that i have a fair bit of the bag showing and dont know where to put it. TIA.
I use the following method (requires liking the feeling of a thong pulled tightly between your cheeks)
1) Use a high quality thong (better spandex/elastic). I tend to buy panties one size too small because I like the tight feeling.
2) Many lace thongs have a cotton panel that is unstitched in the front. I tuck into that opening, pulling my penis as far in as possible.
3) Pull the whole assembly tight. I wear the back of the thong high and the front low. As a result, the boys are held down between my legs by the front panel. The overall look is very flat.
Two bonuses: a tuft of trimmed pubic hair remains exposed over the top of my panties-very sexy feeling, and my penis gets some extra friction from the lace.
I seem to have the problem that when i try to tuck the base above my penis always protrudes to far outward and i have not found a way to get around that so far...
Id love a solution for that too Melanie.
I believe I might have the same problem.
One of my nuts won't stay put no matter what I do. I really wanted to do the tape method, tried it many times and my nut will like come half way out and can be so painful. Maybe I will try it again with some different tape. I usually just end up wearing super tight panties and do the best I can. I just ordered a couple of gaffs and hoping to get a better result.
I know some don't like it, (tucking that is) but I Always Tuck, way back!
I Love the pretty, smooth Feminine front, given by tucking under a hip and butt Control Panty. Both together really help me proceed with a Feminine gait while walking as well as reminding me of my over the top Girly Girl Desires.
, Going Retro in the Feminine pastel Girdles, Lacy Bras are Over the Top for some, but for me---I can think of nothing better.:o:c9::daydreaming:
Trione, if you read Felicity's original post (in the archives I think) once the boys are tucked up into the inguinal canals, the now-empty scrotum can wrap tightly around the base of the "manhood" like a casing on a sausage (lol) , which kind of pins the boys in place, then there is method involving tape that holds it all in place and can keep everything back so you get a smooth front :-)
Here's what I do - it's easy and slightly different from other descriptions here, so is worth a try. Slightly graphic description, but this isn't exactly a subtle thread lol.
Lie on your back with your knees up (that's important) and pull your penis up towards your belly button and keep a slight pull on it the whole time. Your nuts will retract inside your body, pretty much on their own, leaving the scrotum empty. It's a natural reflex position to keep them safe when you're having sex with the partner on top, so they're perfectly comfortable and safe once inside those internal canals. You might have to press on them a little bit the first few times until they get used to the idea. You'll know it's right when your knees are up, the scrotum is empty and the nuts have disappeared inside you. Keep that pull on your penis and you should be able to tuck most of the sack in after them if you want.
Once you're happy and comfortable, stretch your penis down over everything and towards your ass, like a lid to seal everything in. Then just pull up your gaff/panties to keep everything from falling out when you stand up, and you're done. Knees down, stand up, have a good night :)
Once you get a bit of practice, you'll be able to do this tuck standing up, which allows you to pee on a night out.
For an extra flat front, do it exactly the same but at the end pull the penis as tight as possible and tape to your ass. I don't do this any more, it's not worth the extra hassle, to me.
I bought really nice and tight-fitting athletic Nike female spandex compression tights that fit to halfway down my upper legs. I wear these over a tight fitting under armour male tanga-style men's compression underwear, and the effect is remarkeable AND comfortable. I can now wear tight-fitting stretch skinny denims and you can hardly notice any bump at all. I draw my penis right up into the foreskin and almost right into my body and pull the skin up and around my testicles like a sandwich and there is just about no bulge whatsoever once the two underwear items is firmly in place. No other tucking required.
Thank you all for the wealth of information
Thank you all for your ideas. For us older ladies, not as easy to hide those private parts and still be able to use the restrooms without too much effort. What I have been using is pushing my parts downward and then holding a large feminine pad on top. This also aids in not being able to walk too fast so I walk more lady-like because of it.
I need to say also Thanks to all for this wealth of information.
I found a style of gaffs on ebay that work perfectly for me. I wear them one size smaller than my normal boxer briefs size and couldn't be happier because it's good enough and comfortable enough for me.
keep in mind that a lot of guys, even at straight bars, may be attracted to you because of the untucked look. :)
My technique is based off of Trinity "The Tuck" Taylor's technique! I don't use the spray like her though, so I use more of the tape! Keep in mind this is for really tight tuck! The tape is incredible for Sensitive Skin, but make sure you remove any and all hair down there!!! My penis is a bit below average size of caucasion men. Sometimes I'll use a piece of fabric I cut to seperate the tape from my skin. I cut the tape first. I measure to my dimensions. Be sure you do all of this in front of a mirror! After I push my balls in, I take as much of the skin from my scrotum as I can, and almost like a hot dog, I pull back my penis just enough to use regular medical tape to wrap it, which keeps it all together and also makes retucking easier. I also put a little bit of tissue on the end of my penis incase I leek or get excited. Then I pull back my penis as far as I can, which helps keep it in place. If I'm wearing something that doesn't require a tight tuck, at this point I'll just put on my gaff, and some extra undergarment for security and comfort. If you need to go tighter, then I put the fabric over my skin, lay the first long strip of clear vinyl tape down and pull tight! I Like to do one right down the center first, then make T's on both ends with smaller pieces. Then I take another long strip and lay is angled towards the right of my pelvis, and then one towards the left. Finally one long strip down the middle. Then unless I'm wearing lengerie, I take my gaff, and pull it up. I take whatever underwear I want to put over, and n BAM!!! No one would ever know, except you! I recommend starting this gradually, so you can build a tolerance. Start 2 hours a day then increase 1 each day. After untucking, this tape doesn't leave residue btw, I usually relax without anything on, to let everything settle.
Is there a way of tucking without using tape?? I am new to crossdressing
Yes, you can use a gaff. Tucking takes practice.
A gaff is like a pair of panties, but the part between your legs is just a little wider than typical women's panties. The front is stronger, reinforced fabric to keep things in place. You tuck in the usual way and put the gaff on. If they feel a little too tight, then they are almost tight enough :P
I didn't say a LOT of practice, everyone is different, but a little for most folks, I suppose. Do a google search on 'how to tuck' for information. There are even illustrations that help give examples. You can also google "gaff", besides fishing equipment, you'll run across styles of crossdressing panties.
There is plenty of different types panties
For crossdressers (glamourboutique etc)
in stores that looks very useful for tucking.no need tabe etc or any hardway for tucking...
Thanks for the info everyone. I have only tucked twice briefly, but so far the canal and gaff method has worked best for me and is most comfortable. Its also very flat down there when tucked that way, no way you would know there was anything down there.
This is one time being on the lesser endowed end of the size spectrum help! I can pretty much retract into the foreskin and have an innie. Still have to retract into the canals and pull up my panties. Most times I’ll use a panty liner Incase my head tries to make an appearance.
I am not very big and and rarely get hard , I cut a small hole in pantyhose that have the leggs gut off , place 2 vintage nylons over my small thing and them pull up the panty bit off the hose and pull it through the small hole in the front of the pantyhose gusset , my nylon covered miniature then folds nicely back between my legs , I then put on queen pantyhose and a panty girdle and love my smooth contour , if you want a feminine shape control pantyhose and panty girdles ,corselettes are the way to achieve it .
I have learned to prefer permanent tucking and under dressing .
I have tried to experiment with this lately but I don’t think it’s ever going to work for me. I am a good size and i get very aroused when i am getting dressed up. I think I’m cool with it though, I find my nice bulge to be very sexy lol.