I don't think, therfore I am not.
I believe we all exist on a gender spectrum and in that spectrum I believe there is a CD-TG sub-spectrum. I know most CD's say they are are not TG but honestly if you weren't a little TG then you probably would never have thought about CDing in the first place. In my case if you asked me a few years ago (you can probably even dredge up posts here saying so) I would have adamantly said I was CD not TG, but as I have said many times in the past year I was lying to myself most of all.
I have learned to pick my battles, I guess that's something that comes with age and raising children. It's too easy to waste energy jumping on every innocent mistake and concentrating on the negative but then you fall victim to being the victim all the time. That is not to say if someone is being malicious I wont get upset with them, but I am not the type of person to cause a scene just to cause a scene.
LilSissyStevie, the trans community is the first to be thrown under the bus, left to fight for ourselves, and generally ignored by many in the Lesbian/Gay community. Are TG doing the same to CD? Possibly, as there has always been a rift between CD and TG/TS. So much so and for so long that even this board has to keep us separated. I remember when the board only had M-F CD and F-M CD sections, but we all couldn't get along.