Originally Posted by
Salerba
Hello Tammy,
I am delighted to have met you through this forum. You seem to be a delightful person and express your concern so well. You have received lots of advice from so many people, most of it very good and it should help you do decide the course of action.
In her previous post Rhonda Jean presented a scenario that might be somewhat frightening. Keep in mind that not all crossdressers are like that. I`m not sure (perhaps you are not too) to what extent does your bf crossdresses. There are countless varieties, perhaps as many as there are CDs.
I, for one, am what is considered ``man in skirts``. I do not attempt to look like a woman, do not use makeup, jewellery, or women`s shoes. I have a moustache & goatee. I wear lingerie, nylons & skirts. I consider myself a man, perhaps not overly mucho, bot not effeminate either. I feel more comfortable in such attire than in masculine garb.
Perhaps your BF falls into a similar pattern and does not want to be a woman.
You are a fantastic woman and I wish I had known someone like you when I was your age.
Good luck,