Originally Posted by
Shananigans
I think you should just go for someone that you are sexually compatible with and who you love. There are a lot of GGs out there that feel more comfortable in the dominating position and doing the penetration. And, then, there are those that may not need anything to penetrate to make you feel like you are the one getting done. Then, there are tons of beautiful toys that can help you live any fantasy that you could possibly think of without having to put yourself in uncomfortable situations.
I tend to feel more comfortable in the dominant position. I do love women and have fantasies of women and their parts. Likewise, my SO feels more comfortable in a submissive role and he has fantasies that revolve around penises...but, like you, is not interested in men. When we both opened up to each other, we found that we were way more creative and fun than our initial fantasies. And, we also found that it's 2012...if you can think it, there's a toy for it. A lot of people aren't fan of certain toys, because they think it might not give pleasure to a woman. However, since it IS 2012, there are plenty of things designed for women that put them in the stereotypically dominant position that allow for her to actually feel her lover giving her pleasure. It's not like the toy would be giving her pleasure by itself...it requires someone else doing things to it for the woman to feel it. I won't link it here, but you can PM me if you really can't think of wth I am talking about.