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Sorry to hear that Alice. Especially how badly they treat you. Hope things turn out better than you envision. :sad:

I agree. Our winters are actually the best time for dressing. You can add a layer to spice up an outfit without the need to go full bore with heavy coats and the like. On the other hand summer can be...

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Not ride in Winter!? Madness I tell you! :bonk: Just kidding, over here in South Africa riding in winter is often the best time. Our winters are cold(dish) in the morning and early evening...

See the dress... Like the dress... Wear the dress... Simple! :bonk:

Can't say that I am. Ideally I'd still want to not be a crossdresser. Whether that would entail just being a male without this proclivity or being a GG (with no desire to wear men's clothes!!!...

I also like to mix it up. It's no fun sticking to a certain style. Just do a bit of homework to make sure you don't end up looking disjointed but then have fun mixing and matching!

I have/had the same issue. All dressed up with nowhere to go isn't much fun and is probably the reason I started heading out in public. I really love going to the theatre now, which is great if...

Our kids don't. They range between the ages of 7 and 16. Going through puberty is hard enough without knowing your dad likes to run around in dresses... It also doesn't sit quite well with our...

At 6'6" (barefooted) I don't have ANY shot at "passing", even in flats. So I reckon might as well go big and wear the heels! :cheer:

Well, if your wife is aware of your proclivities, you need to renegotiate your deal. Don't fall to pieces trying to live up to another's standard. I once tried to, it nearly killed me.

I think you want it to mean something... ;-)

Hi Teresa. It is wonderful to see you again! :hugs: Ag, we'll see what transpires. The only thing that exceeds my fickleness is irreverence...

Well I would just like to state the unequivocal inalienably uncontested fact that: I don't know nothing about anything any more... :straightface:

I have to concur with Blue... That is about as honest an assessment as you can find. ;-)

I stopped dressing to appease my wife. For 7 years I was nothing more than her lapdog. Four years ago I said no more, even if you don't agree with me (because you believe you have the moral higher...

Your wife is basically expecting you to spend the rest of your life being unhappy. Is that fair? Isn't it "normal" to want the person closest to us to be happy? I gave up dressing for "the sake of my...

Hi Jennifer.

Good to know you're still such a level-headed girl! :cool:

I like dresses but with my tall frame it's easier to get a good fit with skirts. :-)

I wrote some stories and put them up on a blog: jennydoeswriting.wordpress.com

They're pretty harmless, "The Bearable likeness of Ben" is probably the best. :-)

Thanks for all your input people. With me being home for the foreseeable future both parties will have some time for instrospection and discussions of the way forward. Our marriage was hanging by a...

My dear Lidia, I flounder at the eloquence of "Merchant of Venice"...

Hi gendermutt!

A very apt assessment of the situation, thank you. To you (and Lidea for that matter) I am trying my best to live up to whatever choices I made. I am however but a flawed hero....

Not too many of those (type of men) on this forum... Around here, we're all suckers for make-up and skirts! ;)

Hi Molly, thanks for your sprightly reply! To be sure I struggle with a lot of the same issues (well, just about all of them!) that you mentioned regarding your situation. My wife is definitely NOT...

Hi Mykaa and Tommie! Nice to meet new girls! Thanks for your support and thoughts, it is appreciated. :-) It's also good to hear others's stories as well and realise we are not alone in this, there...