I don't go out as much as I used to, but from the get-go it was just instantly, instinctively important to me to go out. And I wasn't satisfied with being out of the house, nor was I all that...
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I don't go out as much as I used to, but from the get-go it was just instantly, instinctively important to me to go out. And I wasn't satisfied with being out of the house, nor was I all that...
Ime experience tall gurls or GGs who wear tall heels look really, well, tall. :) I used to have a gurl friend who was quite tall, she was pretty fearless but didn't wish to stand out any more that...
Might there be a happy medium? Dressing like a hooker for a trip to the mall or grocery store might give a gurl a thrill but it almost certainly will reinforce negative stereotypes in the eyes of...
That's nice that your company is so accommodating, but based on what I've heard and read over the years, that's very much the exception rather than the rule. I think large corporations are more...
I think the "dressing occasionally" would be a deal-breaker with many companies who might otherwise wish to be PC and TG supportive. You would need to go all-in or not at all. Some companies,...
I think maybe you're mixed up. Quixotic does not necessarily mean unachievable, just idealistic and/or unrealistic. And what's doable for you might not be for me and vice versa. So yeah, for some of...
Regardless of what country, receptivity in the marketplace is certainly encouraging and hopefully indicative, but any assumptions based solely on reactions predicated on profit motive are prolly...
Browsing the comments it's apparent that what is doable for one gurl is out of reach for another and vice versa. I feel like pretty early on in my femme life I made some choices about how far to take...
Where I live the annual Pride event is a fairly modest affair compared to major metros, just a day in the park with booths etc. They may have had parades in the past, not sure, but I've never...
I think the first thing I would try to find out is the root of his confusion or reticence about sex or about some other dynamic between the two of you. Maybe it's all of the above. I didn't start...
Dear clarity, as this thread and many others make clear, crossdressing and an interest in gay sex do not automatically go hand in hand. Many CDers are unwavering heterosexuals dressed or not dressed,...
Ime people do notice, I catch them noticing all the time during shorts season, but of course strangers and casual acquaintances are unlikely to quiz me about it. Family members have asked me why, but...
I'm not aware of crossdressing still being illegal anywhere in the U.S. and a quick google doesn't turn up any red flags. Obey traffic laws and you're not likely to interact with law enforcement, but...
I'll just add a thought to all the good remarks. For most of us there are periods of waxing and waning dressing activity, going out, etc due to life circumstances, level of interest, pink fog or...
When I first started going out, which was very soon after the dressing started, and for a long time afterward I always carried a bail out bag, then I stopped because I preferred the total commitment...
Being in the closet is one thing, but having to leave your own home to dress is a major pain and very limiting, so I vote for being up front about it. That said, I agree with Micki, I would reserve...
I see gurls online from time to time who I suspect are mentally ill, and have even met a couple in person who I considered disturbed. I've also met CDers who were so conflicted about their urges that...
Lol. I had a similar experience with a meter reader while I was sunbathing in a bright pink bikini bottom. :o
Well, if you're caught off guard like I was, with no graceful way to avoid it or extricate yourself, you have two choices: you can act scared and ashamed and look like a perv, or you can own it. I'm...
I have a 6-foot privacy fence around my back yard and in warm weather I enjoy spending time out there dressed fem to one degree or another -- it's the closest I ever come to being "out" here in my...
You can create and use an FB account without furnishing them with your phone number, although you will have to provide a valid email address. The irony, of course, is that they probably already know...
I've often said I didn't start dressing until my 50s, after the divorce, but looking back I can remember a handful of random dabblings, just impulse things with no agenda. In my 20s I was once...
First I would make him aware that crossdressing is a thing, cuz I really wasn't aware. Then I would tell him that the seed of gender blending is in him, that it's legit and that it's okay. I would...
There are ways to do a better job of deleting. For example, I use Bitdefender securityware and it has a feature that promises to permanently and irrevocably delete. I presume it deletes files and...
Not to be argumentative, but I see panty lines through GGs' jeans all the time. And with the current fashion of young mens' pants being so tight fitting, I bet they would show too. And just because...