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Find a hair stylist, and ask them for help and advice.

I started to grow my hair out in 2018. When I made the decision to start growing it, I looked for a hairstylist and emailed her asking if she...

1. What is frequency of dressing?: X times a monthly, week, or day? ; What time of day do you dress
At least two days a week, usually more. All day.

2. SO: What is current attitude towards: 0...

When I was married, my ex-wife was supportive, but she never wanted to see me as a woman. She moved back to the Twin Cities this fall, and stayed with me for 6 weeks while waiting for her new...

At least one day every weekend, usually more. I work 4 ten hour days every week (Tuesday - Friday one week, Monday - Thursday the next) So I get 4-day weekends every other week. I am not out at work,...

My first time was the night before Thanksgiving in 1995. My wife went to her dad's with our daughter to help him get ready to host Thanksgiving. I got dressed as soon as she left and waited until...

My properly fitting bras almost never get uncomfortable; I can wear one for 12-18 hours a day without feeling a need to take it off. I do have some "date night" bras that are a relief to take off...

1. Have you ever worn a bra? How was the first time?
Of course. First time felt fulfilling, like having a bra and boobs was the way it should be. Kind of scary afterward since I was deeply in...

Since I identify as transgender, dressing as a woman helps the outside look like I feel, and allows others to see and interact with me as a woman.

For me, the longest is ten days. I do that two or three times a year when I take vacation from work. It can be exhausting and shaving extremely close everyday can be tough. For me it's worth it to...

Not in a positive way. My parents influence led to many years of denial, guilt, and shame. My ex-wife helped me start to overcome those feelings, but I never really started to accept myself as...

My first purchase was a pair of pantyhose, ca. 1978. They went the way of all pantyhose, but it gave me the confidence to continue to buy anything I wanted.

My wife, now ex-wife for reasons that have nothing to do with my being transgender, found my small stash of lingerie a little more than a year after we got married. I was able to convince her that I...

I find tucking to be quite painful. Therefore, I never tuck. I am lucky that I have always been a little on the small side down there, and with tight panties and control top hose, my bulge is really...

For the last 6 years or so (except 2020 for obvious reasons) I have taken several long weekends each year to go to Duluth , MN and taken nothing but women's clothes. While there, I do the usual...

1) Have you ever told anyone you were a Crossdresser?
Yes, my ex-wife, 2 former girlfriends, my therapist, my hairdresser, my nail tech. Lots of other people have figured it out.

2) Have you...

1) When did you start dressing?
I have known from a very young age, probably 4 or 5 that there was something "different" about me, and I was experimenting with my mother's, aunt's and cousin's...

I used the Psychology Today website and found a few that seemed promising. I checked out the websites of those that looked promising, and found one whose personality and sense of humor seemed to line...

Pass, no. Blend in, yes. I dress appropriately for a woman my age, and the occasion. I get a few double takes, especially when I speak, but for the most part I just blend into the crowd, just another...

When I came out to my GG friend last month we started to plan a girl's night out. Well, it happened last night. We both dressed in nice outfits (me in a black skirt and red blouse, her in black pants...

Life on the transgender spectrum just keeps getting better and better.

I finally started seeing a therapist about a month ago, to help me sort out my gender, trust, and social anxiety issues. I...

I had three experiences this year that I would call the most exciting:

First was the completely fem road trip I took in October. I went to Duluth Minnesota for three days without packing any...

I often dream of being out dressed and passing as a woman. Just last night I dreamed I was dressed and on a date with a man. He knew I was male dressed as a woman, but didn't care. No one else,...

It takes me at least 1 ½ hours to get ready, and another 1 ½ hours if I do my nails. With that much prep time, I like to spend at least 4 hours dressed. My preference is to take a long weekend,...

Today, 10. Yesterday, a 2.

It's good to hear that it's a common occurrence. :)

I really was not worried about it, I was actually quite amused by my boss and I having virtually identical postures in a high-testosterone...