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    I go from intense craving that demands the cutest...

    I go from intense craving that demands the cutest outfit I can don- to feeling like Ok- I am a woman and don't need to prove it, and it is kind of self-involved to spend a lot of time primping!
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  2. Thread: 2020

    by phili
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    Bravo! What a great end to the year and...

    Bravo! What a great end to the year and promising for this one!

    I think it is so wonderful that so many medical folks and store sales people communicate perfect welcome and comfort this way. It...
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    Wow- this is so great! She sounds like she is...

    Wow- this is so great!
    She sounds like she is well ahead of you and you might want to ask her to talk to you about what she sees, what she thinks you feel, what she feels, etc and keep it very...
  4. My post was a philosophical reflection aimed at...

    My post was a philosophical reflection aimed at redefining the common usage of 'fetish' from a negative label with the idea that someone has left the normal range of behavior, and with the...
  5. I was moved to write this bc fetish is most...

    I was moved to write this bc fetish is most commonly used with derision or as an emblem of deviancy, and I am saying the behaviors usually called fetishistic exist because of deprivation from normal...
  6. Redefining fetish as a normal response to deprivation

    A lot of us have had or still have crossdressing experiences that would on first glance seem fetishistic- an intense emotional response to clothing, and dressing, and often an erotic component that...
  7. Thread: My neighbor

    by phili
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    I think a lot of neighbors are more tolerant than...

    I think a lot of neighbors are more tolerant than we think and are excellent stand ins for the general public in our lives to give us that feeling of acceptability as we are. I went over to help my...
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    Maria, Listening to your account of your...

    Maria, Listening to your account of your conversation brings up a couple of things to me:

    -She undoubtedly is a very frank person and it is wonderful that she can lead the conversation gently....
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    One of te great benefits of zoom! Enjoy to the...

    One of te great benefits of zoom! Enjoy to the hilt.
  10. Thread: What do I do

    by phili
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    Just let it go! You don't need to feel guilty or...

    Just let it go! You don't need to feel guilty or strange, and therefore having to explain. I told my daughter- who told her friends who all thought it was interesting- bc there isn't anyone over age...
  11. For a different reason I didn't go out- I had...

    For a different reason I didn't go out- I had been thinking Oh boy I'll spend the day out, but then I didn't want to treat dressing as a costume! So I just enjoyed myself at home and went out in...
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    Sounds like it was lots of fun, even if brief!...

    Sounds like it was lots of fun, even if brief! Any time out is good time! I found the face mask very convenient since it covers my beard and people just get to appreciate my happy eyes! I also...
  13. Thread: adu&nw2g

    by phili
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    I encourage you to start serious recon of your...

    I encourage you to start serious recon of your town- look around carefully for the people who are a little different and how people treat them, when chips are down. Look for women who are masculine...
  14. Thread: Double life

    by phili
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    I'd generalize and say that many of us have...

    I'd generalize and say that many of us have multiple 'lives'- sequential and simultaneous. We have options, we wonder, we dream, we try things, we assert things, we give up things, we share one...
  15. Jodie, I don't consider anything to be...

    Jodie, I don't consider anything to be 'privileges' any more for the purposes of public discussion of gender behaviors! As I said, for me, every freedom is a privilege, under threat of revocation by...
  16. I thank everyone for the storms of protest. It...

    I thank everyone for the storms of protest. It helped me see how I developed my theory of assigned male and female powers and privileges, coupled with dreadful requirements and repressions, as a...
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    This is so fascinating! such a rich trove of...

    This is so fascinating! such a rich trove of reflective persooal imagery about mirrors and our interplay with them, and the 'lenses' through which our cameras see us!

    I love the mirrors I just...
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    I enjoy all these ways the mirror and photos help...

    I enjoy all these ways the mirror and photos help me see myself as others might see me.

    I remember, though, as a kid I did not use mirrors- I just looked down at myself from chest down and...
  19. The subject of 'privilege' obviously touches a...

    The subject of 'privilege' obviously touches a nerve for a lot of people, and understandably so. Can we all agree with this statement?

    "Many crossdressers speak of envying things that women do,...
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    So nice! Not only a sweet day out but with...

    So nice! Not only a sweet day out but with active support from your daughter!
  21. in reference to Miel's POV: As a GG she has the...

    in reference to Miel's POV:
    As a GG she has the privilege of her POV being considered more accurate than mine with respect to what a female feels! On the other hand, I'll bet, given the diversity of...
  22. To return to the subject of privilege- we speak...

    To return to the subject of privilege- we speak of male privilege, but are more inclined to speak of female lack of privilege/oppression, as this view of the social context is popular right now....
  23. This rousing discussion is really a nice study in...

    This rousing discussion is really a nice study in the diversity with which each of us experiences and feels the many layers of gender in society. I think I share most of Natasha's POV, and feel like...
  24. Hi Teresa, Yes to all of that. In our...

    Hi Teresa,
    Yes to all of that. In our generation females had to learn to adapt and make the most of their role as best they could, as we did. And for the lucky ones, at least the occasional...
  25. Thread: Intuition

    by phili
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    Hi Finna, I do feel that the liberation my...

    Hi Finna,
    I do feel that the liberation my emotions so I could feel them has greatly increased the nuance of my intuitions! I'd say I have more words and more detail now, and more ability to wonder...
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