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The perfect answer to "Were you trying to look down my dress?"

"No ma'am, I’m sorry I wasn't."

No. I’m a woman who was born with male body parts, so nothing can make me a better man. However ...

When I finally realized that my male persona was just an act, it became much easier to play the...

I?ve been practicing guitar several hours a day. My notes and chords are sounding smoother and clearer than I ever believed possible.

And, as I?ve mentioned before, I?m essentially 24/7 now.

Yeah, the pink fog comes and goes. But for me it’s more on an hourly basis than a seasonal one. :)

I usually throw a kaftan over my nightie, and lounge around like that, sometimes all day.

Why is it wrong to wear nothing but a speedo swimsuit to a formal dinner party?

It’s something that no one would do, but try to explain it.

When I look in the mirror, I want to see myself, not...

Hmm, it’s a long list.
Regardless of male/female mode:
Panties, threw out my last pair of male underwear many years ago.
Pantyhose, no male socks.
Feminine top. I might have a couple of male...

I no longer have much sense of balance. I stick to 2in blocky heels.

To me, male clothing is a uniform that I wear to perform certain duties. It’s the same as a policeman or a soldier wearing a uniform when on duty. I don’t lead a double life.

I’ve read many non-fiction books about crossdressing. I think my favorite is "The Lazy Cross Dresser" by Charles Anders. She makes some good points about presentation. Too often we worry about...

To the OP: I’m sure your analysis is right on target for some people, but as others have noted there are many reasons for crossdressing, and the why isn’t really important. As for myself, I started...

I found my dad?s stash once. I was about 12. He made some lame excuse, but even then I knew it was a lie. And then a couple of weeks later I got caught with my mother?s slip ... (Nothing was ever...

As I said in another thread, I’m female all the time. It’s not really a feeling so much as an intellectual acknowledgement.

I don’t know what it means to feel like a woman, but I know what it...

I’ve had my wife unzip me a few times. I usually buy dresses without zippers, though.

I understand tipping points. After living a lifetime as a male, it’s hard to give up the familiar and venture into the unknown. But if it’s the right thing to do, that realization will come to us...

I’m female inside and out no matter how I’m dressed. She is me, and she isn’t trapped anywhere. Female mannerisms and female voice come natural to me. I can act male when I want to, but it’s just an...

I almost never go out at night. Virtually all my en femme excursions have been during the day. The rare exceptions have been to crowded places like casinos, popular restaurants and the Las Vegas...

I’ve been on several crossdressing vacations. In fact, I can’t remember the last vacation I had that wasn’t a crossdressing vacation.

I’ve been patted down by TSA several times wearing a bra under my male clothing, and several times wearing pantyhose. I don’t ever explain.

I’ve had lots of hobbies. I stick with one for a couple years, then lose interest, or get interested in something else. However, with crossdressing, it has been over a decade since I’ve dressed...

I've lost 20 pounds. My dresses all still seem to fit though. I can wear tighter clothing without looking like I'm wearing a balloon under my dress, and that's a plus.

I've said this before, but it bears repeating. I can't express the thought in words, but when I look in the mirror and see a woman looking back at me, I know why I do it.

I almost never watch football or any other sport. I enjoy going to pro football games and pro baseball games, but I only go once every few years.

Totally at peace. In fact, I find it impossible to feel at peace when I’m not presenting as female. Crossdressing is my key to peace and happiness.

As a man, I always felt frustrated and unhappy despite having a great family and a successful career.
As a woman I’m at peace with the world and happy.

I’ve gone through the guilt thing, but I...