Yes, this site made a difference, even when I was a lurker
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Yes, this site made a difference, even when I was a lurker
I told her very early on. She took to it like a duck to water and we haven't looked back. It couldn't have worked out any better for me.
Well done you and I bet it was great fun. It's great to be out in the big wide younder dressed as we like to be dressed.
Yes, it's great isn't it and well done to you. If you get out more often you'll probably find that you'll be having all sorts of conversations that you'd never have in DRAB. You see, women talk to...
Strange as it may seem, the best places to hide when out and about are the very, very busy places, places where everyone is hot and bothered and just trying to get from A to B. In those places...
That's a great sign. We're seeing that kind of thing more and more over here now too - not everywhere, it'll never be everywhere, but certainly more frequently. Also, my day to day experience...
What a lovely story and well done you.
Welcome to the world of easy shopping - it's a great place to be.
1. Before. It was very early on, when we had really just started going out and it was before we had a true emotional bond between us.
2. It was a very good decision. But, it was a decision that...
When getting ready for a trip I'll work out how many outfits I'll probably need, then I'll look at the probable weather, then I'll think that I'll probably need a couple of alternatives for each...
For me? I care not a jot. It's the only way to normalise the world of CD in the eyes of the rest of the world that isn't us. However, if it does matter to you, to look your best and get the level...
How many people here regularly, or even occasionally, see other crossdressers, or trans people out and about in the real world? Here I don't mean in pubs, clubs, groups and places like that. What I...
It's happened, move on, say nothing. Chances are nobody will have seen, noticed or cared. There are some easy ways to stop it happening again - one, don't mix work and non-work, two, stick a bit...
As I often preface my posts I am fully out in the world, have been for a number of years, and I accept that the UK is different from the US so, in replying to this thread we can take that as read....
...there's really only one way to fight against all the nonsense that's sent the way of crossdressers and transfolk and that's to normalise it and there's only one way to normalise and that's to make...
Gretchan you're quite right in all you say and thanks for the kind comments.
What a happy moment. Congratulations and a very happy anniversary to you both.
Anna, I know exactly how you felt as I have felt the same in the past. Next time you go you'll be better prepared to make your choice of where to go as you have this experience to fall back on. No,...
Some good replies here and I thank you all for taking time to share your thoughts. I think that the first thing to say is that I know and accept that there is a very big difference between the UK...
Laura, yes I know that we're lucky in the UK and it's different in (parts of) the US.
I've been out for a few years now and have been all over the UK with no problems anywhere. I put this...
Ok, first up I'll say I'm in the UK, so things may be different elsewhere. That I accept. But to answer my own questions: You know what, I don't think they do. The world has moved on. Being Trans...
For me, it's like this, I get up, I get dressed, i go out. I'm fully out, at work out, sometimes with full make-up, sometimes with no make-up. I don't pass, I blend, but I bet most people who see...
Among the wealth of advice here, I would say the important thing to get straight in your mind before you do anything is very, very truthfully ask yourself the "What's the worst thing that can happen...
Helen, sorry to take a different view to many here, but of course many people will have noticed. Shoes are one of those things that (cis) women notice about each other. My partner often comments on...
I never go anywhere without my breasts, they have become as much a part of me, my immage of me and the image of me that those who know me have, as any other part of me. The slight sad thing is that...
There is a commonly misheld belief that if you don't cut your hair it will grow longer and longer. This is simply not true. Hair length is a balance between the rate that it grows and the rate at...