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I deleted my Facebook account several years ago after learning how intrusive it is, following your browsing history, selecting ads for you, etc. No regrets. Now I have one less way to eat up time...

As an infrequent member of the "Dude in a dress" fraternity, I would never use the womens restroom. That seems like asking for trouble. I would try very hard to either use a single stall or unisex...

It seems a no brainer to me. Of course kids (and adults) should use the restroom assigned to the gender that they present as and identify as. Details of their anatomy are nobody else's business. ...

My wife's usual attire is jeans and t-shirt or sweat shirt and athletic shoes. She never uses makeup or paints her nails and she has short hair. She is not crossdressing; she wears what she is...

I'd like to be a bra fitter in a lingerie boutique catering exclusively to a young, attractive, and open-minded clientele.

My wife is a jeans and t-shirt kind of gal while I like frills and lace. Sometimes I might wish she would share more of my interest in dressing up but in actuality, part of what I love about her is...

As a teen and young adult I was shy and didn't have any satisfying relationships with the opposite sex. There was a sexual aspect to my CDing and I thought that if I had a good sexual relationship...

I am also somewhere in the middle. Most of my clothing is from the women's side, but the most feminine items are rarely worn outside the house. If I was braver I would wear skirts and more lace and...

I was wearing panties at my wedding, but otherwise all male apparel. My bride fell in love with a man and I didn't feel that our wedding was the place to push the envelope.

My wife and I are nearly the same size, but we rarely share. On rare occasions she has borrowed a slip, but jeans and T-shirt are more her style. A few times one of us has taken over an item that...

What a fascinating thread. Over time I have observed an increased acceptance of gay men and lesbians, to the point that in my community they are (almost) fully accepted with no issues or second...

As others have said, there are lots of good books out there. My public library has many. Also good info on the web and youtube. Sewing is not much different than putting together a bookcase from...

Johanne,
You are my new role model. I am also male with no desire to present as female or transition, but just like to wear women's clothes. I am always underdressed and probably 3/4 of my outer...

Thanks for the good explanation, which seems to work well for many. Bi-gendered doesn't fit how I feel, however. I only have one side and it is mostly male. I am the same person, whether I am...

I second Leah Lynn's suggestion to shop at Goodwill or similar thrift stores to get started. No one will care what you are looking at. You can try on whatever you want with no questions asked. You...

I've found a few VS bras at thrift stores for next to nothing. Nice bras, but I would never pay full price. I recently bought a very nice Wacoal bra, originally priced at $56.00 for $12.00 at TJ...

I'm with you, Sheila. I don't try to pass and most of my dressing is at home, seen only by my wife. We both know what I have down there so no point in trying to hide it. I also like to feel my...

I've only ridden once in a skirt, early in the morning when I was unlikely to be seen. I often ride underdressed, however. I love the feel of my forms bouncing in my bra, and love wearing stockings...

I am one to keep my "man head", but unfortunately I don't have a stunning body and I'm not young, so don't go out fully dressed very often.

I may be in the minority here, but I prefer to use the male pronoun and my male name. I consider myself a crossdresser, in other words a man who often wears women's clothes. If I used a female name...

Hope it went smoothly for you. Last weekend I took some things to the dump, not en femme, but I was wearing a bra and forms under my t-shirt. If anyone noticed nothing was said.

Interesting thoughts. I would probably stick with TG and not refine it further to TGF or TGM. I prefer not to emulate either M or F, but to mix it up between the two.

I'm glad it worked out for you. I once got stuck in a dress I was trying on in a clothing store. I had to call an SA over to unzip me. She wasn't happy.

Another closet story - when I was maybe 9 or 10 my brother and I and a neighbor boy were inside on a rainy day playing in the attic closet where my mother kept her square dance clothing. On a lark I...

I'm with Jonianne. My wife is athletic, rarely wears dresses or skirts, uses no makeup, and knows how to change the oil in the car. None of this detracts from her femininity. (She does shave her...