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I go to my gym as a bloke, but go to their Christmas party as Jae. Have been thinking about getting some female gym kit. Only problem is I don't like to partially dress - it is all or nothing for...

I hate my maleness and would change if circumstances were different. My wife does not want a sister and I think she feels that even a platonic husband is better than no husband.

I asked my wife last night if she would mind if neighbors knew about me and she said she would not mind. Driving back dressed from a studio this afternoon I actually wanted to bump into neighbors,...

I started drawing my old pension on 3rd February (65) but have no intention of retiring gracefully. Having only started dressing last May, Nicki B tells me I am going through my adolescent stage with...

Thank you so very much JoAnne, your short sentence is the very essence of what I have felt the on all too few occasions I have dressed. I will use your quote whenever anyone asks me why I want to...

On Saturday I went to my local Trans Gendered Group and afterwards went to an Italian restaurant dressed. That is probably not such an earth shattering situation for many of you, but for someone who...

Dear Nicki,

I have so respected your opinion in the past that I find it difficult to disagree with you, but I must.

"Jae - unless you can like and respect yourself, it's very hard to really...

Dear Joni,

Thank you for the best explanation I have yet read about loving oneself. Unfortunatly, to my simple mind it still seems narcissistic and selfish.

It is all vey well to say one should love oneself, but I have never understood how one does that. I love others not myself.

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I do appreciate all your replies particularly those of you who offered sympathy for my pain. For those of you who could not understand why I would want to stop, the message below which I sent to...

As usual Nicki has extraordinary perception, although in this case she has the advantage of actually having met me and my SO and is a very dear and most helpful friend.

I really do appreciate all...

The way I feel at present I would give anything to stop my desire to dress. Is there anyone out there who knows of anyone who has tried hypnosis and what was the result.

To Holly, please fogive my reply which was sent in haste.

To Pink, I am so glad for you and pray that your good fortune continues.

To Tamara, God, I wish I knew why I just cannot let my wife...

Dear Holly,

My wife and I discussed this at length together so there is nothing to aplogise about. You have missed the point I was trying to make in that I can not dress in front of her, yet...

I am in a similar situation in that I do not want my wife to see me dressed. See my thread Major Dilemma. Hope we get some good advice.

Am I even odder than most CDers in that I just cannot face the thought of my darling (D) wife of 40 years seeing me in a dress, wig and makeup etc? I have only dressed the once at the Boudoir in...

I wish it was as easy as all of you above have stated. Not every one can get over their fear and a girl needs a lot of advice if they have never done it before. I have taken the route of going to a...

Many thanks for your very kind words and advice and I have now managed to include the pictures. www.resize.it/ was brilliant. The dressing service I used was the Boudoir run by Jodie Lynn. She has...

My new member entry was: “I am in my sixties and have been very happily married for nearly 40 years. However, since puberty I have dreamt and fantasised about being, and dressing as, a woman. For...

As she has asked to see you Gemma, I am sure she will continue to love you. Wishing you the very best.

Fully agree with above, my sentiments exactly. Only problem is finding the time to visit the site every day and I am retired. How do the working "girls" manage to find the time?

I wonder why we seem to be more afraid of being found out, than homosexuals being outed. Is it because we are such a small minority and there is less understanding of our condition?

Since...