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Congratulations on your milestone!

Straight and gay are just labels, which are problematic for those who are gender non-conforming anyway. Being true to yourself is what matters.

Good on you for signing up to a worthy cause!

I have been involved in the trans community for more than a decade (i.e. half my life considering my age), and have been full-time for quite a few years now. The community has been helpful to those...

Once upon a time, I too lived as a very part time crossdresser. I have a very conservative family and social circle, and switching to TS was next to impossible. However, I later became so depressed,...

I guess the biggest change is that there are a lot more daily hassles to deal with, that will temporarily reduce your enjoyment of going en femme, until you get used to it.

This is obviously true. But then, I have seen too many CDs actually come out and declare that they are TSs in the end to say that there isn't some kind of association there.

I guess doctors are usually professional about it, since they are trained to be this way.

People come in all different physical forms. Many genetic women are quite masculine physically. So it is often hard to tell if somebody is trans of not.

Katharine McPhee, she has great style.

I guess everyone really needs to explore this issue and be truthful about it. Lying about this will hurt both parties involved.

As for me, I am transitioning full-time, because I have explored the...

That's really sad. They should do more education about not being violent to people in school, no matter if you like them or not.

I prefer to look attractive (as a woman), but I'm okay if others don't consider me to be attractive.

I am female 24/7 but I really don't mind men wearing skirts.

Sad but true. And it's even sadder that many women are still buying into this nowadays.

Why all this need to be 'normal'? I guess we should all just do what feels right.

Before I transitioned, when I was still at school, a group of girls once joked that they will take me out to shop for girls clothes and give me a makeover. I guess it's the clues thing again.

I think honesty is always the best policy when it comes to marriage.

Human rights are human rights. The right of gender identity expression is no less significant than any other human right in the world.

Before I transitioned I did crossdress. It was almost always out of need.

One of my CD friend's ideal image is Katharine McPhee

Thanks for the post. I think it is very true that internalized transphobia hurts us deeply, and self acceptance is the most important thing we need to find.