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some of these folks opinions that they put out as a factual statement ... should be disregarded. marriages do not end because of cross dressing ...how could anyone possibly have the data to make...

i would happily say goodbye to 2012 but the thing is i dont see 2013 being improved. i have strived my entire life to be better, to provide for my family, probably being more successful on the bill...

hhahah .. story of my life..))

practicing in high heels on a treadmill
i dont exactly glide wearing heels .. )
where can u really walk and practice?
eureka!!
treadmill in 3" heels ... starting very slowly
10 minutes @ .5mph...

i dont belong ... where i am ... where i came from ... the dichotomy of a passionate life ... yet feeling i am on the outside looking in at the same time.....
just sayin
anyways ... happy holidays...

for me ...this is one the most insightful observations i have read... ... i felt ... strangely centered with a possible way forward to some sort of peace

simplistic platitudes

so very very tired... utterly exhausted.. u r not alone dear. every day we wake .. yet one additional battle to get through the day that others dont have. our burden hon

after 48 hours of no communication..
txt -- is there someone else?
no
txt -- do you not love your wife anymore?
ur the one that hates thier partner, not me (i am guilty of bitterness here)
...

After over 24 hours of zero communication....
In the bedroom floor are 3 Xlarge black trash bags....

1st thought --- amazed that i think .. i dont really want it back do i??.. it seems cheapened...

sorry for any snippy replies... its not an excuse but im still devastated..thanks to all that participate.. we are not alone, huh? ... very thankful for the knowledge of that.. it will help me sleep...

even though i never agree with you.. i thank you for your kind, caring soul to many.. luv ya

i hear ya,,, it did wreck me but anything material can always be replaced... even though this was like making a napalm pass after a bombing run... dont really think there is but one path forward at...

of course there are more issues... how ridiculous to think otherwise... u 2 seem to overstate the obvious and belabor it repeatedly on multiple threads... you have your right to your opinion and i...

I think GinaM has a very good description of how this transpired actually. except for the win/win part.. I feel in the end it will be a win/win/lose unfortunately. I told her in January. Things were...

this is gone all gone to me for now... still reeling but have made zero rash decisions. many factors to be considered ... the more i ponder the situation .. the more certain the line in the sand has...

i feel so incredibly violated... as if half of me (or more) has been ripped away... surreal.. stumbling through the black fog... this gone to me for now.. still trying to cope... thanks so much to...

circle after circle after circle..... i am stiil walking around in a daze.... in shock...

wife took everything ... my hanger row in the closet.. skirts, blouses, dresses..
gone.. 2 drawers of lingerie. shoes.. makeup.. jewelry... curlers..gone.. i came in
and found out... asked .....

very sorry to hear, it is really amazing to me that so many of our lives have the same threads.. best wishes for your future, hon!

Oh Darla ... i can honestly say i feel your pain. reading this was seeing my own life .... so amazing that i could have written pretty much the same story... receiving the now random jaw dropping...

many thanks to everyone here for thier opinions. a lot of good stuff from which i will take a lot. ) what a forum with many unique insights... my thanks again ... chris
ps .... took some time...

Aylineira ... i have no idea how things went so bad so fast. i am truely astoundsounded

we are all in a spot where every ones world is sooo different from everyone elses. how can alternate viewpoints not help us all?

@Leelou - Maybe if we don't come clean early it's best to stay in the closet. .... i know i would be voting for your position if i had more sense. @Eryn - wife says its the hardest thing she has ever...