So when I dress, and I look in the mirror I'm happy and I feel good and I feel complete. I like how i look, and how i present. I see all my female features.
And then i try to take a pic, or a...
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So when I dress, and I look in the mirror I'm happy and I feel good and I feel complete. I like how i look, and how i present. I see all my female features.
And then i try to take a pic, or a...
Yay! \o/
I have recently, and a still in the process, of revealing myself as transgender non-transitioning to the people in my life so I get how you feel. It's exhausting, but in a good way,...
It's been my experience that no conversation ever went the right way in text messages. Srsly I've lost friends who insisted on working through something with text.
I'm with the others, leave it...
What a great story to close out my day. I'm fortunate enough to have a GF that has been supportive since day one but I know the other side of that coin.
Anytime I see a wall melting I get the...
I've been in tech a long time, like 25 years. I haven't trusted tech for a long time, like 25 years.
Back in the day of dialup when i was level 1 support, i posted something on deja news, which...
I re-pierced the three holes in my ears recently and am so happy about it. No comments from anyone, not even my kids although I warned them that it was coming.
DO NOT go to a Claire's or whatever...
This is just a great story with a wonderful ending. In all kinds of ways we twist ourselves up bc of assumptions we make of others assumptions of us.
Well played, madam :)
The voices whispering in my head stopped once I accepted myself as transgender. Since then I've been socially transitioning even though I will not physically.
I feel as though I'm in the right...
I'm in tights or women's jeans and a fem top most days, so i get it.
You being comfortable with you is one of the best gifts you can give yourself.
I feel the urge to help everyone in a place where i was. I want to do more for my sisters, drawing upon the experiences I have been through and sometimes feel helpless. But it's not about me, it's...
So many fun stories.
I can never get enough of the "i like your fingernail color" bc the first time i heard it was when i felt like the rest of the world would accept me like i had accepted...
You don't have to be forgiven, for you have done nothing wrong.
Spouses should be friends who accept each other, so... yes i get where this is a problem for you.
Divorce sucks, but everything...
You can't control what others will say about you. You can only control how you feel about it.
I't's been my experience that the silent types are to be feared more than the verbal types. I agree...
It's such a big step, someday I hope you can kinda laugh about how difficult it felt in the moment.
You know, the lack of pockets in women's clothes is disconcerting and really one of the things i really look for in clothes anymore.
I regularly dress in tights and stuff even when i'm not going...
I dress sometimes to go out, but most nights like this I just dress to be me. I enjoy the process of accepting myself when I have the opportunity to do so, even if nobody else is around to see it.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Not only for the clothes, but the part of you that gets discarded when one purges.
I think we've all been there, but that doesn't make it easier to bear someone else's...
I believe the time I have had to work from home has allowed me to finally reflect and accept myself, because I didn't need to concern myself with the pressures of everyone else. From there I outed...
The line, to me, is when you are unhappy inside with the gender you have been assigned. Not when you look in the mirror, but when you look inside yourself.
So much love and wonderfulness in everyone's response. Thank you for sharing your stories.
Yes, those of us who are all old and sh*t have a real fighting chance these days as we watch the next...
I played SL for a couple years and sometimes miss it. Maybe we can meet up in there if you want.
I have a PS4 but I only really play No Man's Sky online. I've always used female avatars in games like Skyrim. When asked about it my standard reply is that I'd rather look at a women's back end than...
I want to just say how much I feel for ppl who can't express.
My heart shatters at the countless stories of being confined in here. I've been there, I struggled for decades to accept myself, I...
It depends...
ppl dress for different reasons. I think all fall under T+ which to me is anything that is not CIS. There's a war being waged around the word "transgender", both sides having valid...
There is a setting in IG where you can opt out of being recommended as a friend or whatever for people you might know. Everyone should turn this on, even if setting up an account from a different...