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Most important thing ? take care to get better.
Trouble is, do we ever really know another person? So often there is a public face which is ?acceptable? and then hidden behind can be darker thoughts, beliefs. Alcohol can be a release valve. I...
These have been so hard times to navigate that I am glad I am not on my own even if it means dressing is limited. The damage to mental health through isolation alone would be far greater.
Teresa, protecting your Mum seems paramount. Up to you if you want to be ordered by your ex wife. Being on your own sounds ok, maybe not preferred, but there are worse things that could happen and I...
Vamp hair, I feel sure we have all been there with these thoughts. What makes it even more interesting is that in different historical times clothing rules and styles were different from now. Also...
For me, choice is restricted by bearing in mind my partner?s preference that I do not dress at all in clothes deemed feminine. It is quite a narrow line to walk! For me I would like to wake up,...
It makes perfect sense. Pleased that another person knows more if the whole of you.
The key was to be more open about it. With myself first, ?you are not a weird person?. With my partner, she was not happy. With a couple of other people in my life. My dressing is hugely limited and...
So wise and compassionate.
Juliette I remember telling my wife. Initially I absolutely and totally regretted it. The anger and disdain it created towards me at the time was unpleasant. Time mellows, sometimes. Time also...
Helen I like your reflectiveness. It also strikes me that in the big scheme of things, with all that is going on now, and with the uncertainty of what will be, then being able to do things that make...
This all sounds like a very significant shift. You are respecting her feelings and being honest. She is willing to explore her boundaries of what she can manage. Good luck
I do think there are also issues around how one sees oneself. Men, women, people come in all shapes and sizes and ?ideals? are maybe rare? If we do not believe in ourselves, who else will?
That is just a lovely must stranded story with all good outcomes.
What feels nice to me is that this is a shared part of life. Easy, natural, lacking tension. Good luck.
Bliss, happy days.
Not sure about sleep dreaming, but when younger desired to have been a girl rather than a boy.
Simply, well done.
What I hope for you after all this kindness, is that when you need help there will be someone there for you.
Nancy, I suspect that there are many of us for whom this is the only consistently reliable way for us to express this part of ourselves. All best.
Well done to both of you. Each day really should have some enjoyment in it.
Niki, I have been away in my own this week and I took with me a pair of leggings that my wife no longer wanted. I had said they might be useful to wear when in the motorbike, but never hit round to...
I have started what I call a “Death File”. It will sit alongside my Will to help whoever has to deal with things after I am gone. Partly information about what is where but also letters for...
Suspect you answered your own question. Shortage of housing in the area means people looking are going to be disappointed, repeatedly. Means some of them dealing with the disappointment have to blame...