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Male..at least for now. I assumed crossdressing was part of the transgender umbrella but now I’m not so sure. It is a gender transition of sorts I suppose hence the conflict. But I have so many deep...

Well, the real test is to go out dressed and find out for yourself.

I last went out on Tuesday afternoon to visit my niece which is a bus ride away. Despite noisy teenagers coming home from school...

Same. It is a denial. Although I am still not convinced I am really bi. Reality is often different to fantasy. I tried it one weekend and didn’t like it. Maybe it was that it was rough and...

No, they’re feminists because they only care about female rights hence why they call themselves feminists. They are generally not egalitarianists which is about equal rights for everybody. What many...

Well, I have only recently gone more full-time now I am out to some family.

It has made me think more calmly. It has softened my nature and how I talk and behave, less laddish (not that I was very...

We should all dress up and go out on International Men’s Day.

Make a visual social statement against the bullshit toxic-masculinity social gender constraints imposed on us, on unreasonable...

Crossdress or not, the question is really no different to “Is there a wrong way to dress?”

Well I believe so up to a point. It isn’t so much to do about passing, but more to do with does it suit...

I finally came out to my mum a few days ago. She did not initially take it well when she saw me. She gets it now and is more understanding. My sister and niece have been more supportive when I...

Well my sister and neice has known for a few weeks now. They are very accepting. My sister lives ten seconds from me now, so thought it is better to now be open than get caught. My SO knows too. But...

I have the face of Popeye (ugugugugug), and the body of Olive Oyl. Oh woe is me.

So many responses, and many with similar reactions. Well, mine is no real different.

I recently told my gf. Well she suspected for a few years anyway when I got drunk one night and showed her a...

Nothing for me to report yet as haven’t really been out, except late at night for a walk around the block or three.

But I have learned so much from you peeps with good advice, to always be aware...

There is so much ridiculous male-shaming toxic-masculinity towards men with long hair, from both women and men. I don’t get why. Transphobic bigots say “If men can’t naturally grow breasts and other...

I only briefly secretly dabbled in crossdressing on the odd moment back then in my childhood, due to living with my mum and siblings. I was a very shy and socially awkward insecure teenager, often...

If you decide on drab. How about at least giving yourself a makeover. I now routinely wear makeup whether I am a girl or a regular guy. People don’t comment at all, and I still feel so much more...

Yes, I had that same fantasy. I was confused for many years on whether I was straight or bi anyway. I did finally act on it just a few years back. The first guy was a crossdresser, well we didn’t do...

I had a surreal dream last night. Well before I tell you about it, a few years ago me and my dad fell out. We still don’t talk sadly. He has no idea about my CD lifestyle.

Anyway my dream was that...

I prefer courteous constructive honesty. That is if somebody looks a mess, I try to look for the positives first. But also give the best advice I can where I feel improvements can be made. After all,...

Wow, you definitely seem to have a keeper there. I was going to say option 3 too. Bringing your SO to make her feel a part of it is definitely the right path, that way it gives a her a little control...

Oh yes I know them stressful moments only too well even though I live alone. This is exactly why I decided to be honest and tell family. I live literally a 10 second walk away from my sister, moving...

You totally had me fooled right to the very end. Good one :lol:

I get it. But sometimes reality aren’t as good as the fantasies. Ummm that was how I discovered after many years of confusion that I am probably straight rather than bi. Still, I get those same...

Wonderful thread. I have recently gotten to know a lovely lady. We are just friends but she has totally accepted my crossdressing. She has offered to take me on my first girl’s night out at a...

Definitely not unusual to shave that unwanted facial fluff, and as it is your face then you ultimately decide. After all, we don’t decide on other peoples hairstyles. So well done you.