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I've heard of them and have jealously viewed pictures and videos, but they weren't a thing where I'm from. Whatever the cause or trigger, I've felt since at least Kindergarten that I was not part of...

Michelle,

While I have plans to bring my primary care doctor in on the secret at some point this year to discuss the prospects of HRT, etc., I'm not wearing panties to a visit to shock her or to...

I underdress 24x7. I find panties, tanks & camis far more comfortable and better fitting than that male stuff I used to wear. When I first started I worried about getting caught, now I really don't...

Haven't had male underwear in a couple of years. I underdress everyday, panties and camisole at a minimum. Quite often at home and on errands around town, I'll wear yoga pants or, as of late, ...

I've worn panties every day for the last couple of years and find them to fit me better than men's underwear ever did. Never mind the variety of fabrics, colors and styles that I can now choose...

Most definitely a difference, I used to need things in size 20/24. In the last few years, I've worked my way down to a 10/12 and there are far more clothing choices that are easier to find. As a...

A long time ago, I started shaving my legs on a regular basis, but my SO soon strenuously objected so I would only do it periodically. A couple of years ago, I decided to go back to always shaved....

I definitely have a more "feminine" style than my SO is today which is one of the things that keeps us DADT, I believe. Well, that and the it's weird and means an embarrassing end of life as we know...

I agree being older and having survived urgent heart surgery has made me care much less about what other's think about how I dress, how I wear my hair, etc. I'm tired of living within the box that...

If I were in today's society, but in my 20s with the financial needs of my 20s, but as aware of my true self as I am today, I believe that I would seek counseling with the goal of transitioning. And...

My first reaction based on the women that I know well - it's a women's prerogative to have more clothes and shoes than you can ever wear. Every time, I'm out shopping and I see something cute, I...

You do become acclimated to them, but no they don't feel natural.

I'm very saddened to hear about your friend. As Pat says, we may never know the reasons for her decision to end her own life. We just need to remember her bravery for trying to be who she wanted to...

I'd have to go with #1 as well. While it's still DADT, my wife tolerates me much better than in the past (I think or maybe there is a reckoning in my future). The last real confrontation that we...

My wife goes to her Mother's house normally on a weekend day and usually texts before she comes home. I can't say if she does that to let me know that dressing time is over or if it is purely...

Krisi,

I agree and try to put that into practice, but the turn of the calendar and the world's assessment of the past year and setting it sights on the next makes me pause and evaluate. My goals...

Same here as with many others. I have two accounts. Don't really use either one much. I think that I used Pamela's Google Voice number when I signed up.

Nothing for Pamela from my wife - unless you count the Axe (yuck) bodywash - I think it is supposed to wash away any vestiges of femininity. Seriously, I don't think that crossed her mind - it was...

I have a very good rapport with my PCP and her office as I've also supported their computers. She's also my wife's Dr as well as a few other relatives on her side. I'm usually the last appointment...

Pamela's style is definitely different than my male style. While I'm trying to grow out my hair and decide on an androgynous or convertible style, my only wig is slightly below shoulder length with...

Like others who have posted, I don't have any men's underwear. I even wear panties to the doctor's office. Instead of men's t-shirts under my shirts, I wear ladies stretch tanks or camisoles. I...

I'm the family cook and do all of the mincing, chopping, baking, etc. I wouldn't want to wear a nice dress while cooking as wouldn't stay clean, but once I finished, I'd love to change into a dress...

What keeps me out of Uggs are my size 13 feet. I wear leggings too, but never out of the house - I get away with Yoga pants because, I think, my wife thinks of them the same as sweat pants. Perhaps...

Laura,

Almost every Saturday and sometimes Sunday morning, i run errands (grocery store, dairy, warehouse club, etc.) in a similar outfit but with yoga pants instead of leggings. Usually early...

I'm not really in the specified group as I'm in DADT world, but I have quite a few things out in the open that if someone paid any attention, you'd think they'd know that something non-binary was...