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Hi all,

I have not posted for awhile as my life has recently been pretty mental with work... I just didnt have the energy to read or think about things. I just come home late, put on something i...

When I was a teenager, I went to a fire brigade for one day to see if I would want to go further.

Sorry to be blunt but the forces (police, fire, ambulance) dont think about social stuff. At no...

Thats great how considerate they were! Nice story!

Frédérique, I have enjoyed your threads and posts but I have to disagree! I may or may not have the backup of experience, and please bear with me on this, but homosexuality was portrayed in a...

Jessica, I think it sounds awesome and not a contradiction! Of course I could be wrong, but, despite her concerns of you going public in general, she is willing to go for it for a night where there...

I think this is a great thread and very well balanced! Lorileah came up with a great counter which part of me agrees with. For true acceptance and tolerance within our lifetime, you have to show it...

Elsa, right now im not sure id even dare to get to the door lol! Was just chatting to someone that I would feel I have to go further than I have gone thus far as they have a dress code which keeps...

Forgotton how much I have loved trance music, at least when mixed well!

The place makes me nervous though - Ive not gone further than stockings and maybe a slip - may have to go and buy some new...

All I can say is GOOD LUCK and HAVE FUN! Nothing wrong with what you do/wear and hopefully the experience will reinforce that for you so that you feel less nervous about the next time :D

=) Thanks all - think I need to find an open minded friend for the night! If I make it I will let you know what its like!

Jxx

Hi Marla

I'm pretty sure we are all a bit guilty of over-thinking! :) Nothing wrong with that, part of the process is some self discovery and CDing is I guess considered pretty taboo and therefore...

Hi all,

I have posted before that despite being something for me as a fetish (not a fan of the distinction but I guess accurate thus far) I feel some compulsion toward showing off a bit. Well,...

It is an interesting question because i never knew who wolford was until i tried wearing tights 5 months ago... I only learnt about them because i tried different designers - and i discovered that...

LOL, yes we do contradict ourselves. But then is that not the essence of being a CDer? Maybe, maybe not. Honesty should come with those who should need it. Like a partner, or a very close friend. If...

I kind of agree with Brandy. Yes its a bit hurtful for you, I honestly get that. But I think that CDing is not something easily understood by people, especially of the older generations. My guess is...

Gosh, its a big question! I am not in a relationship so maybe it is slightly presumptious of me to answer. Obviously you have been hurt by someone and I'm honestly sorry you have had an experience...

I remember when I was a kid I did try my mum's tights. But, it didnt stay with me and I never thought about it. Until about 5 months ago. So at 37, I decided to try stockings and tights and panties...

Interesting points about how you hold yourself if you go out dressed - with confidence and a non aggressive attitude, people will probably just give a double take, nothing more. Maybe they would...

I think I like how forward she was. I would have expected a silent hesitancy... I think its good because she was forward yet apparently cool with it. I love that she immediately looked to her own...

OK, so, I decided at last to post an avatar. Hope its cool - but I showed a friend of mine and she said 'very girly legs' :) Awesome. I asked was it tights or shape, she replied 'both'.

Ok cool -...

Hi Bart-Edge,

Alot of your questions sounded like you were unsure if what you felt like doing was ok - (am I right?). If so, answer is absolutely yes its alright to dress as one likes. I guess its...

Drop it does sound like the most logical and less hurtful option. Guess u just need to recognise what you have right now and what you may lose... Yea sounds fun with the GG, and if the SO is not for...

Exactly. Fear of something as opposed to being open about something about yourself... Im really sorry if this gets boring for everyone who may peruse this thread, but damn! I have heard alot on this...

That's probably bang on, I have to admit. Its very frustrating cause we all here know its ok to do what we do to whatever extreme and yet feel a need to hide it knowing that the majority do not think...

Thx for the encouragement everyone :)

I hear what alot of you are saying and that if I feel I can trust someone enough to tell them (so far a few girls), I should not rush and SHOW them until they...