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Reine, I'm so glad you came into this thread, you always give a different point of view, and offer great advice. I'm thankful for everybody here, and especially you.
You hit the nail on the head...

It's been hard for me to post back to everybody, as there has been so much going on in my head. I'm simply a mess of confusion right now. Thanks for all of your replies, i see how sexuality is...

I plAn on confronting him tonight when I'm off work to break things off. And now I feel like I have to go get tested because who knows what else he's hiding. I can't live my life like this, I'm such...

Wow... I didn't actually realize that's what sissy meant. Kinda fits in with everything else on the profile and the kinds of videos he likes too... I'm a complete wreck right now, I tried so hard to...

Mayo,
I have not yet confronted him about this. Let me start by saying that I wrote my last post in a bad emotional state. Ill be more specific, his profile states he is a closet crossdresser and...

Re-reading many replies on here provoked me to revisit the links that I had found, because I still have a screen shot on my phone. Well, seems like the stream of lies is absolutely never ending. I'm...

I honestly should not have worded it like this, but I've read a lot about people being curious and looking at different types of porn like this.

And katey, that's a good perspective, I see what...

Wow a lot of great replies. Every time I come on here, it blows me away how helpful and knowledgable you all are. I appreciate it a lot. I'm very aware that nobody here can give me a clear answer as...

I think I need to be honest here and explain why I have this fear. Months back, I found a bunch of links on his laptop and they were all either profiles to CDs/TS people and/or links to what seems...

I feel this is a good viewpoint and I think it's important that he addresses this with himself even if he isn't.

I completely agree that they are two separate things, but as Nadine is saying, I'm...

Before I get jumped on, I know that the belief that all cross dressers are gay is NOT true. I've talked to many of you and I see how there are many of you who are completely straight. But my question...

i understand why many of you keep this a secret. But as somebody who had to leave their SO because he would not confess even when caught, it can really damage your relationship the longer you wait....

Thank you everybody for your responses again, I never imagined my post getting so many responses. It truly amazes me every day when I come back here to see new replies. There's been SO many different...

So as I'm planning on approaching a talk at least with him, I just want to say a few more things. This a person, who even though I have been with for 4 years, doesn't know how to have a serious/deep...

Hello everybody again! I'm sorry I haven't replied, but please know that I've been reading everything every single day. I've just been working a lot the past few days, I work 12 hour days sometimes...

Paula,
That is wonderful advice and a great way to put it. The way you worded it was perfect. This is literally what I'm working out in my head, how I will word things. Thank you so much for that....

Hello everybody, sorry that I haven't replied since yesterday. I've just been doing a lot of thinking, but I've read everything that you've all written. I really appreciate some of you saying that I...

I am back today, with the whole day to myself. I'm going to probably write a very long response to everybody. But first I need to talk about what happened this morning. So I've been on this forum on...

I read absolutely every word on here but I am with him right now and it doesn't provide me the time I need to fully respond to everybody right now. I will be back tomorrow, as I will have the entire...

Wow, more great advice from more wonderful people. I appreciate everybody here.
The last few posts from people have taken a different turn and are forcing me to think more deeply into this.
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Wow Dana, that sounds like a great idea and id love to work my way up to that with him. Though I feel maybe that's not in the cards just yet. He has a hard time getting to that level of intimacy and...

Again, I am so thankful to have found this place and all of you. For the past few months I've been consumed by anxiety and stress over all of this, not knowing what to do next. After receiving so...

Thank you so so much for all of your replies, it's giving me a lot of insight on the situation. I appreciate everybody very very much.
I will get more into details with the dating site. As I said...

I can't even express how grateful I am to be able to come here and talk about what's going on, and to have people giving me great advice.
Robin, I definitely agree with that he is probably very...

Radar,
Everything you said makes sense, and I know the best way of communication is face to face. The thing is, I have tried. I wasn't able to include every single detail in my post because it...