I occasionally dream about cross-dressing, usually kind of a hybrid between actually being a woman and being crossdressed. It often starts with being a woman, or maybe partially, with no fear of...
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I occasionally dream about cross-dressing, usually kind of a hybrid between actually being a woman and being crossdressed. It often starts with being a woman, or maybe partially, with no fear of...
A nail biter for sure. My Julie outings are only a couple times a year, and I always rent a car for them, for this reason. My vehicle is way too recognizable!
Everyone has to work out their own boundaries. My wife (2nd marriage) found out after 10 years together, I was terrified. It wasn't easy, but after a few days, we had a very long talk, and she said...
Sophy, you may be done reading these..add me to the list of "don't purge".
I've purged 3-4 times over 40 years, but now have more girl stuff than ever..what HAS changed for me, is that my urge to...
Diane T, that's how it is for me too.
Very interesting perspectives, thanks all. For me, I've always been a guy's guy, which is still my comfort zone. My efforts to understand female thought patterns are centered on my relationship with...
So, hopefully all are being safe in this difficult pandemic.I haven't been dressing for about a year( another story you can check out in previous posts if you're interested), but with much more time...
Glenda, I hear you! After 50 years of dressing, my SO discovered my part-time "hobby" last year. After a week of processing and talking, and a lot of online research on her part, she said although it...
Alice Torn,
"real life" kind of puts dressing in perspective doesn't it? For me anyway.
Ronni, looks like you're new on this forum. Listen to the GG's advice(Di and Dutchess)..they are on the receiving end of this, and have the most valuable perspective IMO..the rest of us are kind of...
Helen, I get the psychological boundary of the magic 6' mark..that is my height. I'm not currently dressing or going out, I'm on a bit of a self-imposed hiatus. But I have plenty over the years. ...
Ellbee, I struggle with the same thoughts. My dressing is limited to once or twice a year, my choice (full-on all-day outings), but I "manage" this part of me with occasional visits here, and reading...
So..an update.
It’s been a bit over a week since my SO discovered my dressing, and after she spent the week doing her own research, at her request we spent Friday night discussing it all for 4...
"Shame + guilt = lower self esteem, and not feeling normal" "You think you get over it then it comes back hard. " "It's made my life way too complicated, I would have preferred to be without this."...
All,
I want to thank you all for your valuable input. Nothing has been said here that I haven’t considered at some point, but it is really helpful to read the varying perspectives as I process what...
Thanks all, I do appreciate all the input, and will check back again in case there's more..I'll share a bit more a little later, for what it's worth. Again, thank you all..
So..after 50 years of occasional crossdressing, including 30 years with my ex-wife..I finally slipped up and was discovered by my SO. I imagined that if this ever happened, I would lose everything...
[QUOTE=KatrinaK;4301748]Do we really need to have this exact same conversation every month?
Some of us are only on here very infrequently..I am finding reading all these posts very helpful..just...
Michelle,
I have both of those things..it did it to add believeability, one more thing to confirm "female" in people's minds..though I do sometimes get read, probably more than I think! Anyway,...
Hmm..I can relate. But I am crystal clear in my own situation how I feel about this. I try not to judge, so will only speak from my own perspective. I am totally closeted, as far as I know no one...
Judy, I agree with Kristina K, a good counselor could be of great help in your current situation. We may all have opinions, but unless we are trained counselors with a lot of experience, it's all...
Trione, if you read Felicity's original post (in the archives I think) once the boys are tucked up into the inguinal canals, the now-empty scrotum can wrap tightly around the base of the "manhood"...
@Stephanie H-
I'm with you on that sis..if I get a "Maam" from a female..especially if she's not a sales assistant..it does make my day! Although the guy who chatted me up when I was about to head...
Brooke: When I go out for training rides - between 3-5 hours in length, very often it is in full makeup - foundation, blush, eyes and brows fully done, lips as well. A tube of lipstick in my jersey...
Having a hotel clerk ask me, "will there be anything else, Mrs. Martin?", with several people in line behind me..I answered "no, thank you sooo much!" in my best female voice, then turned and walked...