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You mean kilt. :straightface:

That’s what it amounts to. All women (or anyone, for that matter) want to know is what is under the kilt. We should just lift it up and get it over with – is this...

Skull acoustics? COOL! I worship photographs, treat them like icons, and believe what they tell me. Much better than a mirror, I would say, for the reasons you mentioned. For the most part I like...

Yes and no. I tried it on Thanksgiving, with mixed results, and I’m going to try it again during a Christmas get-together. Stay tuned. :worried:

Don’t believe it, then. Dislike everyone, distrust everyone, and dump on your fellow crossdressers without thinking first. What are you getting at, anyway? Go on to the next thread and spread your...

You could easily discuss a “New Femininity” in this regard. It is indeed a mistake to consider a “modern” woman to be less feminine, at least in a historical context. I see no withdrawal from...

Seems to me you would be doing yourself a disservice by stopping your “Maria” activity. Why can’t you embrace yourself and relax? You went to all the trouble of getting an account here (as...

OK, I will. I just want to say that long posts are welcome; in fact I look for them. I don’t understand why anyone has to apologize for writing a decent “treatise,” as you put it, trying to...

My sexual preference is male, my gender is male+female, and my gender identity is female, or when I’m in disguise, a very effeminate male. Do I like my “bits?” What do you think? I think it’s...

And if you’re going to wear your “stud” clothes, you might as well re-shingle the roof! I don’t get this “bit**” thing at all, based on your appearance in your avatar. If your wife wishes...

No. I’m the same person. I only have a femme name here because it is required. I must say I don’t understand this third-person concept, where (insert femme name) needs time and space, and (insert...

I thank everyone for their heartfelt comments and advice. I wish I had more time to respond to each and every member in turn.
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I only get to be among my family on occasions like this, and a...

I’m beginning to think I should be more secretive, and withhold my precious crossdressing, keeping it near and dear to my heart. I have learned to suppress my desire to dress simply by being at...

I love that line! :)

I think I was born with my rationality for crossdressing, and it didn’t take long before I was trying things that were at odds with being a “normal” boy. So, in that...

I would be attracted to a male dressed like you, but I’m not the gender you’re trying to attract. I look for androgyny and reject conformity. The clothes reflect what’s going on inside. If you...

I’m sure “fag” is used properly, at least in the minds of those who spit out the term at the slightest provocation. “Queer” is too refined, a continental word, not American, and thus...

I’m a “uke,” a submissive lover, always on the bottom. I never pretend to be a female, and I never pretend to be a male. I can’t explain it any better than that...:o

You’re lifting words out of context and over-exaggerating (a drag characteristic?) to make a point about a heated subject. I’ve been following this discussion for several days, and I think...

Yes. I’ve kissed both, but I much prefer males. If you kiss me you’ll kiss both at the same time. :kiss:

No. I wear them from time to time, but they didn’t cause me to crossdress...
You know what “paved my path” to crossdressing? My frustration over having to wear boy’s clothes, and the desire...

Not to make light of your situation, but I’m glad I’m not married, nor am I contemplating a marital state, not now, not ever. When I go to a Halloween party I usually dress like a uke, meaning a...

Of course my “OH” came up with the idea, since I live in the same body as my other half. We talked about it and decided it was an excellent way to express “our self.” We live in peace and...

Anyone who looks like you should ditch the umbrella, unless it’s raining, of course, and show your face as often as possible. How about transgendered expression with an umbrella – use a parasol,...

I would just say don’t bring it up. Of course, I may dress a certain way to hint at it, or be more obvious about it, but it all depends on the circumstances. In my case, my overt effeminacy is the...

Not in my case. I create the adventure each time I venture forth into the world, but it’s a daring, hazardous, somewhat romantic undertaking because of how people perceive me. I wish it were...

For some reason I wrote about innocence the other day, in another part of the site:

"Innocence is a myth. I hear this word all the time, or I read it, wondering aloud if I’ve ever seen or...