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That is cool having a a true friend.

Sandi

Helen,

Off the top of my head, I do not recall how much she knows, but it seems she has been tipped off a bit. If she has not already slammed you for it at least that is a plus. I take it she...

Sounds like a good outing. It really only gets easier. I am kind of surprised that someone made any negative comments because I have been out many times without such. Anyhow, a venue like that is...

You are going to be in a friendly environment to be sure at a drag show. You can dress up a bit because it is no problem being noticed and complimented there. In fact it is hard to over do it at a...

Shelly

It almost seems as if those who have not really ventured out have a misperception of how people will interact with a CD.

I have been out many times, too many to count. No one has ever...

My thoughts,

No need to risk existing friends that you have a long relationship with, just make some new friends.

That is one reason I go to LGBT bars and clubs. Most everyone is accepting and...

Sabrihal,

Lots of good responses already, but I will add my thoughts. Like Maria said, it is a roll of the dice to tell someone after you start dating or after marriage. Yes some get lucky , but...

I never really got comfortable with the idea of being a crossdresser until I got out and met people in social settings. It becomes a lot easier to be self accepting once you meet people more...

The first time I tried wearing a dress in front of my wife was scarier than wearing lingerie into a bar in a high crime area, and the outcome was a lot worse as well. I will not be poking the bear...

Hmm interesting. I guess that blows the theory that people will not recognize us when we dress up.

No point in worrying about that which you can not change. My guess, if it was no big deal to...

It is complicated for many of us. We are so varied, I do not know that any of us can say what is right for you.

I suspect many of us have pondered this question. If I am not tran, why am I so...

Hip and butt pads. forms, and waist slimmers like a corset do wonders for fooling the eye., but you did get me thinking. I have not actually weighed myself will all of that attire on, and I shudder...

I used to suntan in women?s thongs at the beach, but I had to stop mostly because over time the sun has taken its toll on my skin. No one ever really seemed to take notice although I only went to...

Danni,

Correct me if I am wrong please, but from what I read it sounds as if you have not ventured out in the wild crossdressed, and you only dress up at home. Unless you plan to be in public...

Hi Di,

Lump me into the group who consider it more than a hobby but less than a lifestyle.

There are certainly elements which resemble a hobby. I tend to get carried away with shopping for...

Static is not much a problem where I live due to high humidity, but the factors involved are not enough to really be a good give away. When I was in college in Boston years ago, I remember holding...

Sometimes I am not sure what drives me. I know I like the attention. I love meeting new people and the opportunity to talk with others about my crossdressing habit.

It seems as if just about...

There are many things that can give us away. I once spotted 2 CDs at a club and could only see them from behind initially. They were far too tall and had no hips.

I have come to realize you can...

Interesting. She seems tolerant to some degree which is nice, although it seems as if she has some lines for you to not cross. It is better than what I have which is zero tolerance and I do mean...

Amy,

It is kind of interesting that it seems your wife is not the one reluctant to be seen in public but you. Do you think you can give in if she insists on dragging you out somewhere as if...

Back in 2017 I was dressing in my hotel room more and more when traveling for work. Eventually I got bitten by the bug of wanting to go out and to be seen. For a number of months, I had this tug of...

Amy,

If I had to guess, it seems to me your situation is fairly rare. I am sure many here would love being in your shoes.

Sandi

Gee that is a lot to go through. I am happy to see you are on the mend though and back with us.

Sandi

Considering I have gone into stores wearing skimpy clubbing attire like only a bra, corset, mini skirt, and heels, I would say you can get away wearing whatever you want most of the time. The key...

I think my record number of outings is 5 out of 8 days in a row, and it was mostly at night technically speaking. It was a lot of fun and I would do it again, but I found it quite exhausting. At...