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    Welcome. Turquoise. Your situation is incredibly...

    Welcome. Turquoise. Your situation is incredibly common. It is good that you came out to her. Admitting to this trait is liberating. But the fact that she is quickly supportive is a bit unusual -...
  2. What an adventure. But you did it well. Yes,...

    What an adventure. But you did it well. Yes, ignoring the naysayers is the best policy. Acknowledging them just encourages their knuckle dragging behavior.
  3. I agree Sara. I think the ability to have a baby...

    I agree Sara. I think the ability to have a baby is actually talking about reproductive biology and not gender traits. It is a throwback to the sex=gender kind of thinking. You can also turn this...
  4. Excellent, SaraLin. We do things because we think...

    Excellent, SaraLin. We do things because we think about them before hand and that is the switch that turns on some kind of expression of what we are feeling. But it is easy to perceive it as what we...
  5. I think that is an astute observation, Sherry....

    I think that is an astute observation, Sherry. The fact is no one can feel like someone else except in a general sense through empathy and similar perceptions. But even then it is only an...
  6. Thread: What if ?

    by GretchenM
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    Probabilities apply to everything. The genes you...

    Probabilities apply to everything. The genes you inherited that form the foundation of you could have been different. A little different or a whole lot different. But the probability of someone being...
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    Welcome! You are in a good place where you can...

    Welcome! You are in a good place where you can talk about your feelings and your situation and not fear retribution. Not everybody is transition material; in fact a majority are not. So you do what...
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    An interesting post, Rhonda. I don't go out, but...

    An interesting post, Rhonda. I don't go out, but my sense of society is similar to yours. Much more acceptance or at the minimum tolerance of people's choices. Of course there are the public policies...
  9. Thread: How to stop?

    by GretchenM
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    It all depends on why you dress in the first...

    It all depends on why you dress in the first place. For most the motivation rests very deep in our sense of who we are. But if you are among those who do not actually have those deep sensations and...
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    Here in Colorado leggings are common, but mostly...

    Here in Colorado leggings are common, but mostly on women. Especially in the winter. Skiers wear them a lot under their ski pants - they have replaced panty hose to keep you warmer. Men wear them out...
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    Debbie, that is a difficult subject for sure....

    Debbie, that is a difficult subject for sure. Certainly a lack of acceptance on any basis can lead to difficulties in the mental health department. And it is probably pretty well known that the lack...
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    Partly in the closet; partly out. I rarely dress...

    Partly in the closet; partly out. I rarely dress fully with makeup and the like, but that is fun and produces a different sense of self when I do. But opportunities are few and far between as my wife...
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    Rachael, welcome and a beautiful post. It is an...

    Rachael, welcome and a beautiful post. It is an interesting community here! And one that can alter one's perception of the world.

    As for the effects of having 6 sisters, that is significant but...
  14. Thread: 600k

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    Helen, as Emily said, you are resourceful and I...

    Helen, as Emily said, you are resourceful and I am sure you will find what pleases you. My wife and I haven't been to a movie (cinema in your world) in years. Nothing interests us. So many are trash...
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    Of course, I don't know but suspect that the...

    Of course, I don't know but suspect that the stresses of the coming treatment is making you, subconsciously, seek comfort in your female-like side of your total gender identity. That is common, but...
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    Welcome to the forum. It appears you have...

    Welcome to the forum.

    It appears you have already discovered one of the keys - experimentation and reflection on how different clothing expressions make you feel. And also how your feelings can...
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    I agree with Helen 99.8%. I have noticed that...

    I agree with Helen 99.8%. I have noticed that women's voices are just as variable in pitch as men's, but generally a little higher to a lot higher - even a bit squeaky in some. In general most...
  18. Haven't noticed that much out here in the Rocky...

    Haven't noticed that much out here in the Rocky Mountain West - in fact, not at all. But it will likely get here in due time.

    This is one of those articles that report on trends that show how...
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    Very well done, Ameejo. I am sure you are...

    Very well done, Ameejo. I am sure you are probably on Cloud 9 about now. It is such a relief to reveal a long kept secret and not get smacked around for keeping it. Honesty is the best policy. And...
  20. Donna, it is a fascinating phenomenon for sure...

    Donna, it is a fascinating phenomenon for sure but in the science world there is no conclusive explanation even though it is recognized. Personally, in your example, I think Helen's explanation is...
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    Great question with no clear answer. To me the...

    Great question with no clear answer. To me the LGBTQ+... is a poorly conceived classification system that applies terms to variations that are as ambiguous all get out. The letter T presumably refers...
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    I think you two have dealt with your daughter's...

    I think you two have dealt with your daughter's growing up very well. And I agree that coming out to her opens a door that locks in place - open. But I also agree with your wife's position that you...
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    Congratulations on opening up to so many and...

    Congratulations on opening up to so many and being accepted to some extent or other. But the situation with your wife not knowing is definitely a precarious one that you will need to face with...
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    One might suggest that they get their eyes...

    One might suggest that they get their eyes checked (with a laugh of course). And then admit that you have some gender issues and "That is just the way I am and have been since I was a kid."

    As...
  25. I can see your point, Marina, especially the last...

    I can see your point, Marina, especially the last sentence of your second post. I see Drag as a specialized form of crossdressing that carries a completely different message that sometimes is quite...
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