Sue, I can understand how you feel. Like others on this thread we have members of our extended family that are gay and it's not an issue for my wife. MY dressing however is and we are very much DADT....
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Sue, I can understand how you feel. Like others on this thread we have members of our extended family that are gay and it's not an issue for my wife. MY dressing however is and we are very much DADT....
To bring things back on topic. I risked my marriage, family and everything I had telling my wife. I know she's got quite traditional values and even the thought of the lads in Duran Duran wearing...
We've discussed this before Becky and my story is more or less a copy of yours. I dressed from a young age and into my teens and early twenties. Then, it stopped for about 15 years. I met my wife, we...
Indeed, my wife knows and doesn't accept my dressing at all. I now don't mention it when I'm going to dress. However due to family constraints the odd time I go out dressed to functions she's knows...
Sadly I don't always think that's the approach you should be taking. I'm going to get shouted down here but the ONLY person who knows YOUR relationship is YOU and your wife. How can anyone provide...
Certainly not a hobby. A compulsion, a need, a part of who I am? Yes! The more explore this side of me the more I realise it's also more than just cross dressing. Quite how far I'd like to take it...
I watched the movie and to be honest found it quite a poor representation of what we go through and feel emotionally and what our partners probably go through too, although I guess it's hard to fit...
Like Sarah says above, I think a lot depends on where you are, where you live. If I shop in my major big city there is a reasonable proportion of GG's in skirts and dresses, however in my local town...
I'm pretty happy with my appearance. I'd prefer a few less wrinkles of course, better eyesight (for applying make up). I'm quite small and quite skinny, shoulders are reasonable and not too broad....
1. Everything except that I have a female name. I wrote it all in a letter and read it to her late one evening. Answering all the questions I knew she was going to ask. Even mentioned where I kept my...
I'm not sure even that would be a suitable answer as it's quite an open response. If your wife is open to the dressing idea than this could be ok. If not then all this is going to lead to is a lot...
I think the first time as around this time last year. Stayed in a hotel and my first experience was getting in a lift with six other people, fully dressed and either no one noticed or they just...
Sorry, but that's a one sided blind statement. There are any number of reasons you may wish to keep this from your SO. It doesn't mean you aren't being honest, rude or whatever you'd like to call it....
DADT works for our relationship. Apart from the dressing we are very happy. Yes, the dynamics of our relationship did change when I told her but we are still happily married. Give and take,...
You look fab Nicole and very convincing. Perhaps it's not so much how you 'look' though.
Sometimes how we act, or how we look to see if we have been made that gives us away sometimes. I don't...
Really sorry to hear that Jessica. We hear so many positive why you should tell stories that morally yes you should say something, but reality is sometimes something completely different. Like in...
The subject has been dropped for now. She knows if she wants to ask anything she can do but I won't bring the subject up anymore. She knows where my femme wardrobe is if she wants to see it. I've...
I don't see the need for a counselor and would make this a bigger issue than it really is. Not everyone needs someone to intervene in their relationship when things get slightly tough. It's quite...
I have been on the other end of it twice before and yes it does hurt but when your other half says she'd have preferred not to know it does get you thinking. Like I've said before we all are...
I couldn't disagree more. As my previous post, having now had the conversation several months ago I think my wife would have preferred not to know. Our normal man and wife relationship is no longer...
For me, my wife knows I dress but doesn't know when. I'm self employed so I can pretty much pick and choose when, even so, it's not that often. She knows where my clothes are as I've told her but she...
I've seen threads like this come up time and time again.
Becky, the ONLY person who KNOWS your wife like you do is YOU. Anyone on here can tell you that you should tell your wife or your shouldn't...
You look absolutely fantastic Nicole - you've NOTHING to worry about!
Eve_CD, I came out to my wife about six months ago. I'd been out to a couple of events and had made (and still have) great friends associated with my Cding (more so than in my normal everyday life)....
Well good on you. I was petrified to tell my wife after a ten year marriage. I did, we are still together, we love each other, but she's not accepting at all. She understands my need to do it and is...