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I work as a systems engineer. I design, build, integrate, and test embedded systems.

My legs are short and fat. As much as I have tried, they appear to be incapable of crossing like a lady does. It's knees together, legs tuck back and to the side for me. :-(. Wish I could...

I have flown a couple of times now and have not had any issues at all.

Since my time as Melissa is always limited, I have found a flying to be a great way to spend the day out and about.

You...

Hi Judy,

I do love my fem self. I like the guy side as well and internally don't really differentiate between the two sides.

I am sorry for your situation. It is a bit like mine. I told my...

You look wonderful Riley. Glad to hear that you had a good outing. Blending is always my goal and it is always a confidence booster when I feel like I have passed through my day without drawing any...

Well the way the math works out my life is currently about 98% boy time and 2% girl time. If I had my druthers though I think it would be more like a 80m/20g breakdown.

Hi Allison,

Any updates on having a talk with your manager? Hope it goes/went well.

Thanks,
Melissa.

Hi Girls,

I need to vent, or maybe I need some lime green filtered goggles to cut through the pink fog. A couple of weeks ago I took a business trip, probably one of my last for a while (just...

Labels are for soup cans. I don't need a label. I am just me. So no, I don't identify with the T or any other letter.

PS: I miss hearing from Marcella, I hope she is doing ok.

If I had nothing to hide and everybody knew, I think I would dress more frequently but not all the time.

Before I accepted that I wanted to dress all the way, I had worn pantyhose both under my...

Hi All,

I just wanted to share a fun mini adventure I had this week.

But first, some background. I have always had a love for shoes, what girl doesn't right? But shoes are expensive and...

Hmmm....

I love skirts because as Jennifer noted, you can pair them with different tops and get more combinations. I don't like skirts because there are some many combinations to choose from and...

Krisi,

So I would describe myself as just a CDer.* I have no desire to transition I am comfortable as my male self even though I have a feminine side that needs to be expressed.* I had suppressed...

Hi ladies,

I am sitting here waiting for my plane home and had a chance to get caught up on the forum and reread my post. I must say, apparently sleep deprivation and two glasses of wine impaired...

Yep,

12 hours out and about as Melissa, traversed half the country, ran across people I knew, and nada, nothing, nobody noticed me or cared. Not one police helicopter or anything :o! it was a...

Speaking of pantyhose. I can't afford real forms, so I have been using pantyhose and rice. Anybody have any problems with these going through TSA?

Allie, I did do a clear base and that helped a ton when it came to taking the polish off. Think I just need some practice, I only ever done my nails like 3 times.

Hi,

I am new enough to adventures out in the world that I wanted to share my experiences today. Just as most of the other girls around here report, nothing to exciting happened, lighting didn't...

I am the only person going to this meeting from my site and it is a direct flight so I should be ok.

I was thinking about wearing the blue dress from my first ever outing:
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I know there have been a ton of these, but I am looking for some words of wisdom / encouragement. I am going to be going from Phoenix to St Louis soon on a business trip and I have been thinking...

Unfortunately I have gone from a 4 to a 6. She has said that she will leave me unless I stop dressing.

Hi ladies,

I must tell you about my day yesterday. So I am not a person to do anything halfway, once I decided I am doing something I am committed to the end. So my feelings are exploring the...

When confronted with people who suggest such ideas I will every once in a great while hop on over to youtube and watch the MinusIQ video. Then remind myself that while the grass may seem greener on...

Hi,

Thank you all for replying to my venting. :-). I have been reading everybody's responses and would like to clarify a few things. First, I poorly chose the words "hobby / life style". I was...

The counter point to Freedom.

Only a few short days later and I am home (Happy to be here. I love my family, I am a home body, this is where I belong) and I am racked with guilt. I know my...