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So I made an OKCupid profile.

This time I decided not to hide my sexual identity, a fetishistic crossdresser, a kinkster, looking for a female.

But I would hide my face.

I probably...

I'm not arguing this but in what way are they creepy? What is it about them that makes them creepy?



I think plenty is an exaggeration. Some tolerate and an even smaller number enjoy cross...

OK I am one of those sick perverts that occasionally dressed as a "wh*r*" or a "sl*t" and I'd like to defend this. I have in the past dressed in rubber drag to a gay night club despite being...

Is it a problem with labels or a problem with the wrong label?

Labels are hugely important. Labels help us find out who we are and let others understand us. You are asking us to deny there are any...

I have yet to see a complete pattern in what makes a woman interested in a crossdresser but I would point to some things that do not seem to be relevant.

The "barbie"' woman can be into...

Maybe you just need to get out more. Meet new people. There is more to life than a healthy tolerance, an interest in experimentation and a desire to please. Have you tried www.crossdresserswives.com...

But can you really call DATT acceptance? I honestly don't think so. They are after all meant to be a couple. I know people might be happy with this arrangement but I don't call that acceptance. Its a...

Role models?

There is a fashion for dismissing role models but I think in our hearts we need someone to riff off.

I have jealousy for Nicci Tristan of...

Actually I wonder if as understanding of crossdressing and trans issues spreads it might put women off more not encourage them. If a lot of the women knew the realities, details and complications...

If the therapist talks about coming to an understanding, coping with conflicting desires, dealing with each others sexual needs, managing your needs to express feminine qualities then that's fine.
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About those men and women attracted to trans people. How would you describe their attraction? Is it an orientation or a fetish?

I never really believe the claim that all "transfans" (is that an...

I think it might be a bit more complicated than that.

Complete support for LGBT rights from me. Including marriage. As a CD I feel it is a relevant cause. A society for LGB rights is more likely to be positive towards T. And it shows how much progress...

No I don't feel like a woman trapped in a man's body. But I do wish I was more handsome as a man and more pretty when I crossdress. Body hopping might be nice. I might wish I had the body of a pretty...

Ah yes Deuteronomy 22:5 - as interpreted in Lego

If it was this simple we would know by now. So no I don't think this is the case.

I understand this must be a tricky situation.

I can't offer any advice about the religious aspects as I am not religious. While I respect other people's right to various beliefs I don't respect...

Actually that sounds like an awesome sex game to play out with a woman. I guess I might get bored of it. But I like aggressive women, I don't think thats such a rare thing in the CD community. Going...

...unless of course that woman is gay. Or are you saying that lesbians aren't proper women? Its that sort comment that alienates the lesbian community from the cd community. I'm not saying every...

I know its tempting to play what ifs. But that person who is not a crossdresser isn't you and can't be compared. Better to be a better you than wonder about other people that don't exist. You can't...

I was making a difference between being open to start with and telling them when the relationship gets serious. There is always a temptation for a cd to wait until there is emotional investment.

I think its worth pointing out the common dating advice to straight crossdressers on this site is to hide it from your potential partners presumably in case the think its gay. I understand...

I guess people say it here to give context to what they are saying. We are all giving our experiences from different perspectives. I DO want to know the sexual identity of people so I know how I...

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Actually I'm beginning to suspect in a society where women know more about crossdressers before they date one they might be more likely to quit rather than stay on. This would probably result in...