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    You are so fortunate your wife is willing to talk...

    You are so fortunate your wife is willing to talk with you about your dressing. Everything I've read in this forum tells me that communication is vitally important. That's not how it went for me. My...
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    I feel like the term that describes me most...

    I feel like the term that describes me most accurately is "Gender fluid", and that's how I answer those few people who have questions. I make no attempt to pass as female, but I am most comfortable...
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    I didn't know that was even possible, so congrats...

    I didn't know that was even possible, so congrats on finding a skilled hairdresser and being brave enough to be their first bi-gendered client. I am very curious to see what kind of hairstyle you...
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    How does it feel to be, in the eyes of the love...

    How does it feel to be, in the eyes of the love of your life, the thing she is most ashamed of? I'm in roughly the same situation. My wife refuses to be in public with me while I'm dressed, but she...
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    To add to the Shawshank reference. Men don't look...

    To add to the Shawshank reference. Men don't look at shoes, but women might. But even if they do, they're not expecting to see pantyhose and would probably give benefit of the doubt to it being a...
  6. CONGRATULATIONS!!! That was no "teensy weensy"...

    CONGRATULATIONS!!! That was no "teensy weensy" step, that was a momentous occasion. It's one of the hardest steps to make and you crushed it!

    And did you notice how much negative feedback you...
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    Oh boy, can they be rough on feet. Forcing my...

    Oh boy, can they be rough on feet. Forcing my feet down a 4 inch high ramp into a confined toe box has to create problems. But there's a plus side no one seems to mention. They are actually good...
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    My wife knows everything about my dressing. She...

    My wife knows everything about my dressing. She sees me in a skirt every day, and has gotten to the point of telling me I'm beautiful. But, hokey smokes, it has been a long, arduous route from her...
  9. In the last five years, I've gone from maybe one...

    In the last five years, I've gone from maybe one outing a week of 1 to 2 hours duration, to being essentially full time. I am dressed in a skirt and heels everyday going to and from work. A skirt is...
  10. Thread: In denial!

    by suzanne
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    Like a lot of other things in a sex negative...

    Like a lot of other things in a sex negative society, 'fetish' is seen as a dirty word to be avoided and denied where necessary. Who knows how a fetish comes into being? I have an idea, based on my...
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    Do you think there's a real chance either of you...

    Do you think there's a real chance either of you will take the other for granted? Only you two know the answer, but I suspect not. For one, most CDs in this forum greatly appreciate when or if they...
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    What's the problem here? Your wife knows of and...

    What's the problem here? Your wife knows of and accepts your dressing. It sounds like you were in male mode for that outing, but you don't need to be, because the only one whose opinion matters...
  13. Thread: Where to go?

    by suzanne
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    Aunt Kelly is right on the money. Even those who...

    Aunt Kelly is right on the money. Even those who are close to passing are easily identified as men in dresses. But if your outfit is tasteful and appropriate, you WILL be accepted as presentable,...
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    Like you, I dislike my male form (but I don't...

    Like you, I dislike my male form (but I don't hate it), and I would never pass as female. I don't even try. If I did try I'd just fall into the uncanny valley and be a tragic joke.

    Maybe this is...
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    Why not try saying something relatively neutral,...

    Why not try saying something relatively neutral, like, "Your shoes are amazing." or something similar that might apply. Comments like that are almost always made woman to woman. Men never say that to...
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    Every CD goes through a stage like this....

    Every CD goes through a stage like this. Uncertain about how we will be received and fearful of every negative outcome, from sideways glances to assault or arrest. It is only by going through the...
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    So don't dress. Leave the pretty clothes alone...

    So don't dress. Leave the pretty clothes alone until you want them back. You never signed a contract obligating you to dress a certain amount of time. None of us are holding a knife to your throat....
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    I know how frustrated you must feel. So I settled...

    I know how frustrated you must feel. So I settled on doing it vicariously. A couple of days before one wedding, my wife came to me and asked, "Woud you mind if I borrowed this dress from you?" She...
  19. Thread: Nervous...

    by suzanne
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    You have no reason to be nervous. You look so...

    You have no reason to be nervous. You look so nice, you will be accepted exactly as you are. I don't look as good as you and I never hesitate to go out and enjoy myself. I'm guessing your biggest...
  20. Thread: Who Knows WHY

    by suzanne
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    It doesn't even matter why. You are what you are,...

    It doesn't even matter why. You are what you are, so be your authentic self. I have a few possible thoughts on why I dress, but choosing one over the other doesn't affect where or how I dress and it...
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    That was the pinnacle of inappropriate on her...

    That was the pinnacle of inappropriate on her part. She might have well invite you to a No Tell Motel. You handled it perfectly and so did your wife. Too bad about the dress. It probably would have...
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    Yes and no. Part of me wants to have been a woman...

    Yes and no. Part of me wants to have been a woman while in my twenties. But so many things were different back then (in the 1980's) I just wasn't ready for that. Earlier than that, I had been taught,...
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    Jeepers! Fantastic pic. I should think that,...

    Jeepers! Fantastic pic. I should think that, looking as good as you do, you should have all the confidence in the world to go out. Zero fears or anxieties. I don't look nearly as good as you and I...
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    I think many of us DO have the courage of Jack...

    I think many of us DO have the courage of Jack Brennan, or at least it would make an appearance in those of us who have a more public existence. He acknowledged that coming out was hard for him, as...
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    For most of my life I hated clothes shopping. But...

    For most of my life I hated clothes shopping. But then, after a long period of learning to accept my truth, I ventured out to buy myself my first dress. Ever since then, clothes shopping is the...
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