If it were me in this situation, I would not say anything, and just respond as needed it it comes up. Ur lucky, as Halloween is coming up and makes for a potential excuse....
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If it were me in this situation, I would not say anything, and just respond as needed it it comes up. Ur lucky, as Halloween is coming up and makes for a potential excuse....
If she is like my wife, she knows I dress, but sees me as her man/protector, and does not want the feminine image in her head. So as others said, honor her demands, and be thankful she supports you.
totally unrelated, but i just love reading your comments....
My guess is, when we look at ourselves in the mirror, we all see a man wearing female clothing, no matter how good we may actually look.
Actually, after thinking more about it, I kind of like the androgynous look (male jacket) of what I am wearing, especially since the leggings will clearly show my male anatomy, along with my 6ft...
It is a (100%) LGBT club, that have been to several times in the past, conservatively dressed. For some reason, I just like the feel, and look of the men'ss jacket, in that it adds a bit of...
So I am going out to a club next month and wanted to get thoughts on my clothing. I'd like to wear something sexy, but then tone it back with a black leather mens jacket. So my idea, is to wear my...
I totally get what you are saying. We all have some desire, at various levels, to associate with the female within us, and address, for lack of better words, a femininity gene that drives us to...
Pantyhose of course!
I wear PH or tights every time I dress, not sure if I'd dress without....PH started it all with me, and the basis that build each outfit that I wear. I just love the silky feeling of my clothing...
You are a true woman! When I dress, its 80% fetish and 20% woman! I could easily go less fetish, I and I would love to, but life does not allow me that pleasure.
pantyhose!
VERY FEW of us pass, broad shoulders, adams apple, no bottom, deep voice, masculine moves, etc etc etc....... I would not worry about passing and just learn to be yourself and work with what God gave...
Does anyone dress JUST due to a sexual fetish for women's clothing?
I went a little over a year, and could not resist dressing again.
I cry in guy mode all the time. Usually when something nice happens to someone. I find myself often sitting for a minute to get rid of the tears before I walk out....
I totally agree with the above, but as a place where a CD lacking confidence would not initially feel out of place; could go to build up confidence, I felt gay bars were a good start, at least for...
So I've walked into 4 different gay bars blind, and had no problem what so ever. It took a bit of courage to get out of the car, but as stated above, once you are out the door (car door in my case)...
This is the best, and most realistic advice I have seen on this board. When I go out, I know I will be read, but as long as I feel that I look good, that is all that matters. To many of us are...
Well said, thank you.
I posted this thread, as I had read another thread where a person was trying to get up the nerve to go out dressed, and instead, just wore heels, while dressed as a guy. While I totally admire their...
It seems that most of us, (I know I do) have a fear of negative reactions when going out enfemme. I try to dress as "classy" as possible, and make every attempt to blend, also ensuring my movements...
I am in a somewhat similar situation, in that my wife does not want to see me dressed, but she is ok with me dressing. She has known this is part of my life for as long as she has known me. We have...
I bet if everyone would come out of the closet we would not have any problems, and be totally amazed at the friends/coworkers that we know are CDers as well!
Well, that sure clarifies your orig post!
For me, I am uncomfortable posting a picture. WHen I do go out, I go to cities that I do not live in. Just in fear of being discovered. Don't know that I...